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flabbergast

41 M Naarden, Netherlands

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Selling it, while:
1) smart enough to know I don't know very much
2) being everything but average; not in taste, music, film, politics or approach to life
3) being not too shabby ;P
4) being a specialist: can learn almost anything if focussed
5) actually enjoying helping others
7) helping myself...

I am certifiable, witty, and funny
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"My ego is writing checks that my body can´t cash"" ^_^ asking people if they know where the previous quote (ego/cash) comes from... Absorbing information. Trying to improve. Traveling
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything except playing fieldhockey and dying

More seriously; finding my way in unknown territory, listening and learning from languages I really don´t understand. Doing quite well overall.
When I read the above I sound like an arrogant bastard....I´m, not!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Me asking them, what they noticed first about me. The second thing noticed is usually more important...my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A) learning how to read lol, drama van het begaafde kind-Alice Miller, Adriaan&Olivier-Leonard Huizinga, Thorgal, Storm, XIII.

B) Revolver, Pulp fiction, Dogma, reservoir dogs, goodfellas, Snatch, Hurlyburly, State of Grace, American Beauty, The usual suspects, Hot Shots I&II, Spaceballs, Once were warriors, From Dusk til dawn, Planet of the Apes, Killing Zoe, Clerks, Good Will Hunting, Gran Torino

C) Opeth, Animals as Leaders, The Police, Aghora, Death, Gordian Knot, Sepeltura, Pain of Salvation, Genesis, Ozric Tentacles, Slayer, Dream Theater, Massive, Chet Baker, Clannad, Portishead, Cynic, Bozzio Levins & Stevins, POS, Grip Inc, Amy Winehouse, Norah Jones, Curtis Mayfield

D) Indonesian, Japanese (SUSHI!!), Italian, meat, veggies, potatos, tomatoes, pussy...after having the real deal for the first time I will add Chinese food as well (not the average take-away shit in Holland)

E) British Comedy: Blackadder Rules!, Bottom, Fawlty Towers, The Young Ones, A bit of Fry and Laury, Have I got news for You, Never mind the Buzzcocks, "QI" (Stephen Fry hosts), Homeland, Dexter, Breaking Bad, Lillehammer

Hope you guessed what the added E-section is all about....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, humor&laughter, love&intimacy, traveling, food, film, sarcasm,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What my subconscious is thinking. The places on this earth where I am not, right now. Travelling. On a cloudy depressing day, the horrific facts of life trouble me: I really would like to kwow what it is that gets in to peoples minds when they hurt/torture/kill people. I don't mean the "criminally insane", but the people who seem to be "normal". I you have seen Polanski's Pianist, you will know what I mean. Don't get me wrong, I don´t have morbid interests, I´m just deeply puzzled by human behaviour.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to figure out what typical friday nights are about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I actually have a life outside okcupid. Play drums on my or another body in the shower...don´t worry, the other body is alive, female and conscents to this.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Want to know if I am being serious or not. Want to know if I like Harry Potter. Want to have a laugh and if you´re lucky, a really loyal friend.

In order to prevent wasting my time and get into arguments that are in fact no arguments, but me telling cold hard facts; please do not contact me if below applies to you:

1. Your profile contains the combined words "god fearing"
2. You believe the bible is the exact word of God
3. Go to church
4. You think I, my children (which I don't have) or in fact anyone should go to church
5. Like the pope
6. Condone, support or enhance any form of organized religion that endorses ideas and beliefs solely based on fear instead of love.

If you think this is a hostile attitude, you obviously never met any of the people whose concepts of life and religion I’ve shattered; those who were smart enough, not brainwashed or indoctrinated beyond return and had the emotional stability the cope with it.
For them and the ones who are too stupid to be robbed of precisely that, I am sorry and will focus my life of on more positive things. That just means I will spend time with people who have at least similar ideas about life and leave everybody else alone. Surprisingly (to some of you that may be) I think that everyone is allowed to think and believe what they want to……but PLEASE don’t mention it to me if it’s listed above!