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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 2:02am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
Open relationship
Has kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a friend, we often have conversations that would fit flawlessly in the play, "Waiting for Godot."

A little about me you ask? Well, I am married in a stable open relationship with SeekBeauty. I am a very open minded person, I embraced the motto Knowledge is power. I learned to question everything and I will, I have in the past couple of years changed some views that I held my entire life because they did not hold up to scrutiny. I do not expect the same from others but it is a bonus.
I care about mankind. I am an INFP in the Myers/Briggs personality test, which is the Idealist Healer. I am a feminist (the word mankind bugged me a little) although that is not the only reason I consider myself a feminist. I believe in the betterment of society as a whole. That caring for others is more important than personal wealth and power, might be why I don't have a lot, but I have enough. I do care very deeply for my family, friends and those around me. I like to know what people think, I value honesty and discourse. I am a very lighthearted person, I love to laugh and enjoy life.

I notice some people like disclaimers so here is one. Just because I am in an open relationship doesn't mean I am looking for: a meaningless relationship, I am looking for women who are secure with themselves and enjoy great conversation, exploring the intricacies of life.
If you send me a message with a question or comment I am not going to bother you for the rest of your life. I will respond to questions and criticisms. I will most definitely ask questions back, I love learning about people. I will not take interest as an invitation for lewd advances. I am an intelligent, mature and open minded adult who knows how to respect boundaries. I am secure in who I am. I also would like to hear from you, I am here to connect with people.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on my diet and exercising. I am raising two girls, helping my wife embrace and love life, and enjoying my friends, usually with good food and RPG's. I work nights so on my weekends which can be during the week sometimes I am up late.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, I was single for a while and found out that in order to eat I needed to cook, if I wanted to eat well I was going to have to do it myself so I did. Sometimes food is for sustenance and that is ok. Sometime food is art and that is amazing.
I am great at coming up with ideas. If you need a box thought out of, I'm your man.
I am great at listening, if you need someone to talk to. One of the best compliments I ever received was from a woman who said I had big ears, and she didn't mean elephantine.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My humanity. I am a good listener, that I can be trusted not just because I can keep a secret but because I honestly care about others. That I speak my mind, this wasn't always the case, I used to keep my opinions to myself, that was when I had a low self esteem, now I have an ego that can survive any attack, I like to think in a healthy way, if you disagree feel free to let me know. Sometimes I am too open, but once upon a time I wanted people to know me and no one did. Then I realized for them to know me, I had to talk to them and I opened up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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They should really be in separate categories. Currently reading: Wicked, Game of Thrones, and Band of Brothers.
Books usually depend on the current whim: Biographies, Classics, Fantasy, SciFi, College Text(Sometimes for fun depending on the subject), The Dresden Files.
Magazines: Popular Science, Popular Mechanic, National Geographic.
Movies: The invention of lying, Happy-Go_lucky, Finding Neverland, Pans Labyrinth, Band of Brothers, Zombieland, Dr Horrible's sing a long blog, Firefly, The Wire, The Hogfather, Going Postal, The Great Dictator, Twilight Samurai.
Music: Lots and mood dependent.
Food: Flavorful, something I have never tried before. I am currently adding a lot of fresh vegetables into our diet, usually with my bamboo steamer.
Art: I love the Pre-Raphaelites, especially Sir Edward Burne-Jones
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
see Maslow's hierarchy of needs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
making the world a better place, improving myself, trying to figure out what I don't know, questions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, 2 out of 3 Friday nights, the others I am hanging out with family, friends, or reading. My Fridays (start of weekends aren't always on Fridays) I am usually up wishing everyone hadn't gone to bed so early, usually around 2am.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I want strong intelligent female role models for my daughters.
You should message me if
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-You are a real night owl. I have a lot of free time between 10pm and 6am.
-You are smart, I find intelligence more attractive than a hot body (although I am not opposed to hot bodies)
-you don't mind talking about thoughts and feelings.
-can make me think.
-you can teach me some tricks in the kitchen.
-you want to ask me a question