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flamarty

46 / M / Straight / Single

Jacksonville, Florida

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:45pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
"elway117@Gmail.com" or 904-994-9868...) Hi I'm Marty, I spent 22 years in the Navy reserves. I retired JSO in 2001 after 6 years. I love snow and Colorado and have a Communications degree from UNF 2002. I went to Ed White high school in Jacksonville. I have lived in Georgia, Fla, Conn, Maine, Colorado.
I have owned a motorcycle and it got stolen a few years ago, so I want another one, a snowmobile would be nice too.
My son who is 15 is a great kid who is a honor roll student at Creekside high school. He is great at sports and I spend a lot of time coaching him and motivating him.
I have traveled to many foreign countries and have been in all the continental US states except Oregon and Washington state. I make a yearly trip to ski in Colorado where I have friends who are couples and I like to have a woman who can go, ski (if you cant ski "ill teach you).
I have competed in local bodybuilding shows in the early 90s (my youth), and I still lift, just not on stage. Maybe one day I will do a masters, but for now I'm focused on my son. That was 20 years ago and now I do it to stay healthy and live longer..I would like a woman who can work out with me, I actually enjoy that. We can both benefit from working out together.
I've noticed people have lost the simple manners of responding to a good morning or hello..I will respond to anyone because even if I'm not intersested it is just human compassion and simple manners. Maybe it is the online dating rule, but I refuse to be one of those rude people.
I have lost 25 pounds since the first photo in the blue shirt,..that photo was last year. The last pic in dark shirt/shorts is two months ago.. since I lift weights, my weights goes up so I can gain muscle. In the winter I tend to do lots of cardio for my annual ski trip to Colorado..
What I’m doing with my life
Being a good father!!
I’m really good at
Snow skiing and being a father. I suck at uploading my profile pictures!! Sitting on the rocks on Monhegan Island Maine watching the stars.. Anything in the weight room. Photography. Driving 125 miles an hour one hand on police radio other hand holding a cup of pepsi while steering with right knee while chasing a robbery suspect and wondering what the hell the broncos are going to do next year all while pissing my sarge off for wrecking his patrol car.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes...and white teeth!!!:)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books? too many,, mostly adventure or political. Movies? I like star wars..yep I'm a geek. Music? rock, Boston is my fav band ..but I'll listen to anything except rap. I like to cook at home. I'm actually damn good at cooking, my fitness background and upbringing did that. I love a good night on the town esp... St Augustine, at the Columbia or OC Whites or Pizza Alley!!!! and if in Denver, we have to hit the Chophouse in LODO..or Marlowes on 16th street. If we are in Steamboat Springs Colorado there is a great BBQ place down by the river that pours double shots of 151...ohhhh . In Larimie WY, there is a bar outside the town that you must hit, but only real cowboys and cowgirls need apply..
The six things I could never do without
My skis, my Denver Broncos, watching my son play sports, Colorado, my cookbook, romance (in a log cabin next to a fireplace in Colorado surrounded by snow and awesome mountains), traveling, exotic beer and wine, the band Boston, a drink at the Thirsty Whale bar in Bar Harbor Maine, oops that more than six..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My son and his future,, snow and snow skiing in Colorado..did I mention snow and a log cabin and a fireplace?
On a typical Friday night I am
I work on friday, but on Sat nights its party time..but I'd rather be by that fire..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love housework. 22 years in military does that to people..I hate clutter and I like to walk barefoot on my clean rugs. I'm very domesticated. I'm an only child and my mother taught me to cook and clean at an early age. I'm a cleaning machine, and Wolfgang Puck in the kitchen.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You can just be easy and laid back..I like to do simple and work up from there. No pressure, just fun...if we fit we will know,, but you gotta do the first date thing right? One more thing ..if you dont like cops or ex-cops or any variation thereof..cause of some stereotype that you have, well im not an ass or conceited,, so please dont pre-judge me based on some.. yes that just happened and it wasnt pleasent....