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flaminscar

39 / M / Straight / Single

Gansbaai, South Africa

His Details

Last Online
May 23
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I enjoyed my single life,cause I spend every moment of it on my daughter,and nothing on my self,or on any romance.But the time has come for me to use the unappreciated and unused love.I enjoy laughing,crying,adventure and romance.I'm mysterious and unpredictable.I'm fearless and had many disappointments and setbacks which made me wise and careful.The term its a woman's job,or that's where she belong is bullshit..Let me explain.When I am at a braai,then my girl will sit with us around the fire,drinking , laughing and enjoying ourselves,and Not in the kitchen making salad and watching the men through the window enjoying themselves,because that is what her Mom said is where a woman's place are.!?.When my work buddies plan a fishing trip,and they leave their girls or wife home,because he thinks that its not a place for a lady,I hope she cheats on him,because my girl is coming with me,because I can't see why I must enjoy the outdoors alone, and she must stay home?Where will you get better romance then,to be under the stars in any case?Then I DON'T NEED someone who ditch me as soon as we go through a rough patch and go look for some spoiling elsewhere.That is the only thing I really respect from the 19th century,where the woman stood by their men through thick and thin.What else is there to say?I don't need to impress anyone to like me any way.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a Police Officer but In a process to resign and then to start something totally new and different.Tired of facing corruption, violence,hate,backstabing,drama,getting insulted and shot at.Its a real underpaid unapreciated job for too long
I’m really good at
I am good at lifting any dull atmosphere.I am naturally funny,and I am a good listener and also a great artist(paint accrylic).Good at summing up a situation and read people mostly accurate.Was Good in MMA but quit a long time ago
The first things people usually notice about me
The first thing people notice about me is probably my scars...and then that I'm funny
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love all Wilbur Smith books,enjoyed the movie "Avatar",and I can't say No to a good steak.I love all kinds off music.I Love watching MMA Fights on sport channels or You tube
The six things I could never do without
Cellphone..,PC..,my car...,sound system in my car..,my camera...and my dog
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I have endless things I think about.The after life,cemtrails,tsunami's,how woman thinks,people and their things,money,Love,luck,the unknown,where I screwed up ect ect
On a typical Friday night I am
I am not someone hanging out in Bars,so it depends on my mood.Sometimes just chilling get take aways with few movies.Other times to make a nice fire and BBQ some meat and make a nice chow with few drinks,and few friends or just romantic time if I have someone special.One's in a blue moon I like to go clubbing and dance till the sun comes up
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cry when a animal get hurt
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
you feel like it...to chat,to make a friend or interested in something more.