Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am fun, and I love to laugh. I view getting to know people as a
very important facet of life; relationships and people are
important factors in everything we do. The people closest to me
would probably confirm all of this. Also, I am the eternal
I really love to travel; I have grand plans to travel the world and
the country, some of which I have already fulfilled. I also want to
learn many languages. I already speak a bit of French, but I really
need to practice. I have also recently started learning
I think that where I live in Northern Arizona is so beautiful, and
it is a shame I have not explored it fully. I would love to see
everything the world has to offer.
I love knitting and sewing, but I am not great at either of them. I
just like the thought of making my own clothes. I also love
starting with quality materials and putting my soul into them until
they become a unique product of my own creative inspiration. A lot
of my income goes into these projects, as does a lot of my
Something that I have been reluctant to say on this profile for a
while is that I am a cancer survivor. I have had cancer 2 times in
the last 4 years. This simultaneously has so much and so little to
do with my personality that I haven't included it until very
recently, but it seems important enough to make the cut. Please do
not message me only to talk about cancer unless you have a new and
original thought. "I once knew somebody who had cancer, and they
died," does not constitute a new and original thought.
I am not looking for anything monogamous right now, so if you are
then I am not the woman for you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying the hell out of it. I am busy being myself, and I am
thrilled to do so. Sometimes I am astonished by how lucky I am and
how beautiful and fulfilled my life feels. I wish that everyone
could understand that feeling.
Right now I am working toward a goal of finding a talent that I can
market toward people who go to Renaissance festivals, so I can live
a nomadic life from festival to festival, never settling down, but
still supporting myself. (Apologies for the run-on sentence, I was
As for what I am doing professionally, I really dislike that most
Americans define themselves by what they do instead of who they
are. It makes me a bit sad. Anyway, what I am doing with my life...
If you must know what I do as work I am in retail management.
I might go back to school one day. That day might be sooner than
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Helping people to see the positives in a situation. Like I already
said, I am an optimist. I really believe the point of life is to be
happy. I like to make sure the people closest to me are happy,
healthy, and intellectually fulfilled if possible.
I enjoy cooking; I don't know if I am extremely good at it.
I need to put this out there just because I felt that it needed to
be said: I am a great kisser. If you are not a good kisser, I will
leave. If I leave halfway through a date but fairly soon after we
start kissing it is because you are a bad kisser, not a boring
date. We are all adults here and we should have learned to kiss
when we were teenagers. Go to my pictures, look at my lips, and if
you think you cannot handle them, don't message me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and how much I am enjoying myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't really pay attention to much pop culture, so questions
about books, movies, tv shows, and music are best handled in
person. I promise you that in my life I have read books (even
sometimes for pleasure /gasp), seen television and movies, and
listened to music. Plus, why ruin the fun in learning and
understanding my personality too soon? Getting to know people is at
least half of the fun, probably more.
Having said that, food is not pop culture, so here is a brief list
of things I enjoy noming on: Thai food, Indian food, sushi, soup,
French food, vegetarian and vegan goodness. I've recently been on a
Korean food kick.
If you absolutely need a list of things I enjoy before you think
you can trust me as a person, message me. I am really friendly and
I have no qualms about saying hi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How interconnected the world is. This is an idea that continues to
astonish me the more educated I become. Everything is related and
somehow either directly or indirectly affects everything else. It's
Feminism, specifically ecofeminism, but really any type of feminism
and the misconceptions that come with it (like that I am a man
hater, which I am not).
New recipes to cook (particularly raw, vegan, or vegetarian
Whether one is to say tased or tasered in reference to someone
using a TASER against someone else.
Why anyone would ever want to use a TASER against someone
Religion and spirituality or a lack thereof. I do not consider
myself religious, but I an definitely spiritual and I am fascinated
by the major and minor religions of the world.
I also think a lot about how to be happy and why people deprive
themselves of happiness.
How to smash the patriarchy.
One OKC specific thing that I spend time pondering is how some
people have points against other people in areas that have
absolutely no effect on them. The best example of this is when I
answer yes to the question that I would consider dating someone
with a child. It's a really silly thing to count against me. It has
no effect on your life unless you have a child, in which case I
would hope it didn't count against me. I know that this short rant
sounds much more annoyed than I actually am. It doesn't bother me
when people do this; it is just something (like the question would
imply) that I spend a while thinking about. It is also something
that I try to avoid because why should I hold you responsible for
something that will not affect me?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There really is no typical in my life, but lately I have taken to
Friday night karaoke (I am one of those weird people who likes to
sing in public, be on stage, or even give speeches).
Most recently, one of my friends and I put on our Harley Quinn and
Poison Ivy costumes and watched Batman movies on Friday night, so
that certainly isn't typical.
I also like to go to the first Friday art walk whenever I remember
There is also quite a bit of enjoyment that I find in just staying
home on a Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I pick my nose...a lot. I get quite a bit of pleasure out of it
too. I don't just pick it to get rid of the stuff that is up there,
but because I genuinely enjoy it.
(This is not a joke. Some people have mentioned how funny it is
that I put this on here to scare people away. I'm on here to meet
people, not to scare them away. This really is the most private
thing I was willing to admit to a bunch of strangers.)
You should message me if
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You proofread your messages before you hit send.
You want to explore the world and have crazy adventures with
You are intrigued by non-monogamy.
You like to karaoke and just need someone to do it with
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