But I'm always learning and adapting. Oh btw I know hard work too, I've learned how to landscape and paint professionally, move stuff, crochet stuff- actual own my own biz doing that, cook-catered a wedding, used to be a national award winning stage magician, and I can sing and attempt to dance! Lol. I read everything I have time for and ask questions because I actually want to know the answer to.
I have a few close friends but most people regard me highly and respect/ask for my advice. I give good advice and it tends to be nicely presented, though I can be brash but only when its called for. 75% of the time I'm just a great listener.
That's me in a nutshell.