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35 San Francisco, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 14
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian, Pacific Islander
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I think that the infomercial version of me would go something like:

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(Yep, just a dork. A big ol' dork.)

Meanwhile...

Just a guy looking for a guy to be goofy with. That's video games, cartoons, Renaissance Faire.

Just a guy looking for a guy to be serious with. That's politics, the human condition, social justice.

Just a guy looking for a guy to be physical with. That's holding hands, wall climbing, sex.

Just a guy looking for a guy to be vulnerable with. That's family, sharing secrets, crying.

Just a guy looking for a guy be friends with. That's standing up for one another, teasing, being honest.

Just a guy looking for a guy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Most recently I worked at a large non-profit organization and raised money to support critical programs within the Bay Area that help individuals and families create sustainable and happy lives.

I want to move on to something where I will be able to use my writing and speaking abilities to their full potential but don't know what that might be. I'm sure it will be some kind of community development organization though.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at creative writing and public speaking. I'm also a hack at singing and have a decent amount of rhythm and coordination to dance.

I think one of the things I'm really good at is listening and helping people analyze a situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told my smile or my laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite books are usually science fiction and fantasy. Here are a few:
1. Harry Potter Series
2. Dune
3. Stardust

I also like books that talk about the human condition and behavior. Oh, and sappy gay romance novels.

For movies I'd have to go with:
1. Baraka
2. Princess Bride
3. Lion King
4. Pi
5. Ma Vie en Rose
6. Amelie
7. Reservoir Dogs
8. Amadeus

My music is hard to describe. I like it all, really. That includes country and classical... not so much on the heavy metal, and even that is okay sometimes. I usually don't have any problem just turning on the radio and finding something.

Food is awesome. Really, that's all there is to it. I find that it's hard to find a flavor that I don't enjoy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends & Family
Writing
Video Games
Science Fiction & Fantasy
Compassion
Patience
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a lot about how people treat each other and how we can come together to build communities that support one another. I think about the human condition and about why people do the things they do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Scenario One: Out having some wine with friends and maybe going out afterward.

Scenario Two: At home playing video games.

Scenario Three: Hanging out at friends' or families' houses.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I want a Green Lantern suit really, really, really badly.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should message me if you're a guy that just likes doing dorky things and not having to worry about impressing anyone. Also, if you're rating me anywhere above 3 stars you might as well try your luck.