I am a maker, a doer, and an earthling.
My Self-Summary
I'm part geek, part tinkerer, part activist. I'm blissfully
ignorant of most pop culture, and I like doing things rather than
watching things. I've never quite fit into one category or one
group, and I've learned to be quite happy with that. I grew up in
Rhode Island, went to college for engineering in LA, and moved to
SF about 4 years ago.
I started my dating career by dating guys, but lately most of the
people I like are girls. I'm also poly and seeing an awesome girl
now(the wonderful and sweet
vordilic).
What I’m doing with my life
Working with my hands and making things has always been a big part
of what moves me in life, and lately, the Burningman arts community
has become an important part of how i do that. I became a
flaming lotus
girl a few years ago and learned metalworking while building a
huge flaming snake. I've since worked on quite a few other kinetic
and fire art projects, and have learned alot and showed others alot
about building things and making them work. I feel that there's
some contradictory stuff about the whole burningman thing, however
the coming together of creative energy and the support to just go
out and create whatever you want is like nothing else I've
experienced.
I like activism, but mostly the kind of things where you go out and
create a better alternative to what's there now. Things like
food not
bombs,
the really really free
market, or just building bike trailers or fun bike powered
vehicles. Lately I've been helping my friend with a bit of urban
gardening and have really enjoyed that. We've entertained fantasies
of starting a farm somewhere close and me spending some of my time
there constructing things.
I was working full time for a contractor doing home remodels and
fancy kitchens, but left that about a year ago to enjoy having more
time to make things that I want to make, do yoga, and just enjoy
life. For work now I sort of specialize in making things do stuff.
Technical eh? This includes electronics, mechanical design on fire
art, wiring, and whatever other interesting things come
along.
Long term, I think that I want to put my energy and technical
ability towards creating some kind of collective community
organization. I'm doing a little of that now at the art space I
live at, and it's made me think about that as a long term thing
that I want to do.
I've been working on a practice of Kundalini yoga, getting more
aware of my body and what's around me. Being present can be hard
when i've got technical details of some project running through my
head, but i'm working on it!
I also want to further my exploration of the joys of intimacy,
touch, and connection with other people.
I’m really good at
Building and fixing things, getting distracted, baking, listening
to people, learning by doing, cuddling
The first things people usually notice about me
Something I made or did. Or my eyes.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: Pronoia by Rob Breezny, Days of War Nights of Love by
Crimethinc, the Ethucal Slut, No Logo by Naomi Klein, After the
Deluge by Chris Carlsson, repair & technical books
Movies: hmm not really a big movie buff, though I can usually enjoy
almost any movie for what it is.
Music: Balkan brass music, classic rock, trance, punk,
classical(especially when played by
vordilic), and more!
Food: Mexican, Italian, Indian, Sushi, anything that's not overly
processed or prepackaged(though I'm a sucker for cheez-its). I
mostly eat vegetarian, but if somebody makes me a really good meat
dish i'm not opposed to eating it :) I really like beer too- it's
one of the things I'm sort of snobbish about, and budweiser or mgd
doesn't count as beer to me :)
The six things I could never do without
making things, friends, my tools, sex, new experiences, going fast
on 2 wheels
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I tend to think in terms of overall themes and not so much in
details. So alot of times i'm sort of constructing broad themes on
how the world works from things i observe in life. Unless i'm
working on creating some project that interests me, then my
engineering mind kicks in and i'm thinking about how to make every
little detail of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably either welding away at the shop, going to a party or 2, or
relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I hate talking on the phone- my ideal phone conversation is "OK-
meet you there at 5? OK see you there- bye!"
You should message me if
I seem interesting to you, you're non-flakey(that's one part of my
east coast origin that hasn't been californicated!), get what being
poly is about and are OK with me already having a primary, and you
think we'd get along!