Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Life is short. Let's have some fun! There are many people out there
that live their lives in quiet desperation; I am NOT one of those
people, and I don't hang with them, either. "Socially adventurous"
is a good descriptor. Polyamory
, social justice,
sustainability, natural building - so much richness to know! I have
no time for ridiculous crap like shopping and conspicuous
consumption. Depth and emotional intimacy are what I offer - and
what I seek.
I'm on the upswing from a challenging low point in my health, which
really knocked me for a loop. I've always been stocky, but very
physically active and STRONG. Thyroid cancer rather knocked the
wind out of my sails, and my stamina is finally improving.
Sustaining my new (and somewhat lower) energy level continues to be
a balancing act I am still practicing. Physical touch is even more
important to me now - and that's saying something!
Please be local to Seattle - I'm not interested in never-ending
conversation with someone I'm not likely to meet. In the flesh is
where it's at for me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Spending quality time with my beloved husband PFTigerstripes
in our open
marriage - gardening - teaching permaculture
- living voluntary
simplicity. Stretching my mind. Trying not to be totally depressed
by the current state of most of American culture.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sex. Massage. Stimulating intellectual conversation. Listening.
Talking. Cooking. Enjoying physical pleasures of all kinds.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My enthusiasm. My energy. My smile. My curves. My very hairy legs.
My quick mind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I demand a lot from my art (most of the time, anyway). Chewy stuff
that I won't feel I wasted my time with. Haven't watched tv for 15+
years; watched all of X Files and that was it. Currently enjoying
Sherlock (OMG!) via the internet. Most Terry Gilliam stuff, AbFab,
Black Adder, Kurosawa, Miyazaki (especially Kiki's Delivery
Service), quirky indy flicks, bluegrass, blues, Yo-yo Ma,
klezmer/gypsy/fusion, arabian mixes, classic torch songs by artists
who can actually sing, books on homestead skills and post-consumer
life (currently reading Sandor Katz's Art of Fermentation - yes!).
Food includes almost all ethnic cuisine, wheat-free, scratch
cooking and bbq anything. It doesn't need to be fancy (although
that rocks occasionally) - it just needs to taste good and not have
a bunch of chemicals in it. I like there to be FOOD in my food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee with Jersey 1/2 & 1/2 and honey. Big cocks. Long, wet
kisses that travel down several paths at once. Sun-warmed italian
prune plums. Lipstick. Being loved fiercely.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to save enough money to buy a couple of acres and an old house
in the Skagit Valley or on Vashon Island. How to find joy
regularly. How to minimize driving. How to live lightly. How to
quit taking things so seriously. If I can find a few dynamite
[poly] peeps that live within 10 miles of me. Where are all the
sexy, compelling women in south Seattle? Why are most bi girls so
shy sexually? Why do lesbians dislike bi women?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chillin with my Honey, watching an online video or reading an
online article, making a big batch of organic popcorn (using lard I
rendered, natch), seeing what kind of interesting stuff my friends
have posted links to on FB. Researching natural building methods on
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I'm really tired of consoling men who can't get or keep it up.
And what's this bullshit about older men saying they don't want to
wear condoms?! Get with the program, guys!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are confident, skilled, intelligent, sensually voracious and
sexually adventurous. Not necessarily kinky, but that can be fun,
too. Women & men; come one, come all! Perhaps you're a girl
that wants to be shared with PFTigerstripes
and me? Perhaps I
will get you all to myself? Poly is almost a must; I'm really tired
of breaking in previously monogamous lovers. Girls: be dynamic.
Boys: be interesting.
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