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48 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:01am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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Happy to tell you all you wanna know - just ask. I'm 48, generally date women 22-38. I look at lot younger than I am.

I pursue my passions and somehow they often turn into businesses.

I'm looking for a relationship with someone who has similar interests, likes to do the same things. Yes, I want someone who turns me on, but for a real relationship needs more than that to be sustained. Or, it's just a friend with benefits. I go to plays regularly, live music (all kinds, jazz, classical, world, rock), museums weekly, I'm fit and like to exercise (but I don't wanna data someone who works out like she's training for the Olympics.) I play the guitar, sing and write lots of music. I like shopping, style, fashion. I design clothes and have my own line.

I'm a screenwriter, software creator, ghost writer, producer, artist, clothing designer and even earned a living as a boxer.

If I hadn't broken my foot twice in the past 3 years I'd still be playing soccer, basketball and like playing sports more than going to they gym. Still, I work out daily and I'm fit.

I like dining and wine and cocktails, but don't like my social life to be centered around such things. I prefer an activity (museum, bowling, ping pong, working out, hitting boutiques to see what's trending on the streets) and THEN grabbing a bite and a cocktail or glass of wine or bubbly or brunch. I'm not sure when eating and drinking became "hobbies" but not really my style. Cooking? That's a hobby. Brewing beer or making wine, that's a hobby.

I enjoy watching sports but generally do so while working, or stuff around the apartment, cooking, etc., rather than just sitting on the couch for 2-4 hours.

You: Fun, agreeable*, cute, fit enough and most of all agreeable. You have interesting hobbies, interests, habits, healthy life style, and maybe some volunteer work, NYC area, and have common interests and goals. Interesting people do interesting things.

First date: I like going to museums, dance shows, art galleries, boutiques and the first date - and most dates - will involve one of those, or something similar. I'm more than open to suggestions and activities. We Drinks? Sure, after we do something interesting and gives us something stimulating to chat about and more. Or, let's go bowling! Ping Pong anyone?

* agreeable meaning, we take into consideration the wishes and desires of other people when making decisions...that we're not prone to always dueling over which movie to watch or which place to eat and we're not co-dependent.
What I’m doing with my life
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Musician, professional writer, clothing designer, and more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creative endeavors. Flossing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jupiter Jones & The Fab Five. You can find it on Amazon Kindle. My music profile is on SoundCloud, just search for MacoFumi. 5 demos. Recording EP in ATL in the coming months.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, soccer, wine, movie, kids, dog, sex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
creative projects. harmonies. where a guitar solo might fit and do we really need one? Assymetry.
You should message me if
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You wanna learn more.