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29 • M • Oakland, CA
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 18–39
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Sep 13
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Trying to quit
- Buddhism, and laughing about it
- Graduated from two-year college
- Rather not say
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
I'm not always so good at the trying part, though.
I usually respond with the most outrageous lie I can think of, like;
"My father is Thai-Israeli and my mother is Dutch-Comanche, but my great-grandfather was full-blooded Samoan and he grew up in Argentina."
They always believe me.
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (Douglas Adams)
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance (Robert M Pirsig)
The Great Train Robbery (Michael Crichton)
20,000 Leagues Under the Sea (Jules Verne)
Siddhartha (Hermann Hesse)
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Being John Malkovich
Exit Through the Gift Shop
Boards of Canada
Toots & the Maytals
Johann Sebastian Bach
The Fugees: "The Score"
Neutral Milk Hotel: "In the Aeroplane Over the Sea"
Blockhead: "Music By Cavelight"
Manu Chao: "Clandestino"
Nearly impossible to narrow it down to 5, but my favorite song of all time is probably "Dear Prudence" by The Beatles.
-You have stamps in your passport.
-You've climbed a tree in the past three years.
-You enjoy building sandcastles.
-You stop to smell the roses.
-You live on an island where your sweet passionate song lures the sailors of passing ships. At night, you feast upon their drowned and rock-battered corpses.
-You have ever built a cannabis smoking apparatus from household objects.
-You're sick of receiving ribald sexual requests from random strangers and want to send one of your own.
-You compost your food scraps.
-You have read a book this year (Us Weekly does not count as a book)
-You (sometimes) drink beer in the morning and coffee at night.
-You like telling people your name. My name is Ryan.
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