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  • Ages 27-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 19
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6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism but it’s not important
Space camp
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Probably the most telling thing about me is how I struggled through the questions they give you to find a better match. That was painful. Almost none fully represent me. They feel black and white and I am infinite shades of grey. I spent a lot of time clarifying myself in the space below. Context is everything.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I seemed to have dedicated my life to the arts without actually doing them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Driving, talking to people, and staying up late
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
White Male...?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lots of House and Breaks: Derrick Carter, Plump Djs, Stanton Warriors, Deee-Lite, Daft Punk, Steve Bug ..and with respect to the locals: Mark Farina, Justin Martin, Solar, Galen..

The greater electronic spectrum: Thievery Corp., Tosca, Autechre, Brian Eno, William Orbit, Sigar Ros, Mum, Massive Attack, The Orb,...

Good/Old Hip Hop: De La, Tribe, Mos Def, Talib, Fugees, Wu Tang, Slick Rick, Roots, Dj Shadow, Beasties, Dangerdoom, get it.

Actual Bands: Jane's Addiction, Primus, Soul Coughing, Gorillaz, David Byrne and Brian Eno, Cults, Fugazi, Radiohead, Lotsa stuff..

I still like the industrial I grew up on and I really enjoy Jazz. I also listen to Shameless amounts of NPR.

I like movies, but there is very little I care to see. ..or at least paying for. I just like a well told story. James Cameron, Christopher Nolan, Tim Burton, Hayao Miyazaki are good at that. And I like comedy, tho I am unimpressed with the awkward humor that seems to be all the rage.

The only TV shows I really watch are the Daily Show and Colbert and I watch them online. And I know that Lost and the Sopranos and 30 Rock and everything else are 'The BEST'!, but I'm not sitting through 8+ seasons of each to get up to speed to be apart of that conversation. I'll waste my time in other ways.

I like me some Food! Not picky, just no fast food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good Lovin's
Good Food/Wine
Meaningful Work
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oh, Jesus.. EVERYTHING. Politics, other peoples reality, stuff, music beats, why, outcomes, space, time,.... It never ends.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the club
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Breast Man
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