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fluffy71

38 / M / bisexual / Married

Christiansburg, Virginia

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Undeclared
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Libra and it matters a lot
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am inertial, loquacious, and a bit improbable.

My Self-Summary

Among the many false dualistic distinctions in the world, the world can be divided into the Freaks and the Mundanes. The Mundanes are currently in power, but the Freaks have more fun.

Wanna guess which one I identify with?

Not enough info? Well, also, I'm a geek. Like a gaming geek. RPG's, card games, that sort of thing. I groove on comic books, movies, music, poetry and prose. I also hope to have writing credits in all of the above.

I'm always interested in talking about strange things with strange people.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm software tester by trade. I'm in the midst of a lot of changes and experiments. My wife and I are planning our wedding. I'm getting used to certain changes in my health.

I'm working on a RPG system. I started writing it about 5 or 6 years ago and it's just getting to the point I can think about publishing it. I'm also working on a couple of beer and pretzel card games, though they've been on the back burner for the now.

On 6/6/9, I got married. It was pretty awesome.

I need to get back to some writing projects. I have a couple of blogs that I need to start working on again and I really, really need to finish a re-write on a novel I wrote in 2007.

I’m really good at

...pushing my luck.

...talking pretty (on my good days).

...giving stealth backrubs.

..procrastinating

The first things people usually notice about me

The hair. I also talk all the freaking time.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a) I'm horribly under-read. Stuff I like: Anything by Steven Brust. Harry Potter. I'm very fond of Heinlein as well, particularly Stranger in a Strange Land. I've finally read American Gods and Good Omens and loved both of them.

I'll also include comics here and point out I'm fond of Warren Ellis' work (particularly Transmetropolitan), Grimjack, and I'm currently grooving on 100 Bullets. Also, Joe Linsner is a god amongst men and his comic Dawn reflects this.

(b) I've been told I have cracked out movie tastes. Faves include: The Princess Bride, The Breakfast Club, LotR, The Matrix, Fight Club, Big Trouble in Little China, UHF, Equilibrium, V For Vendetta, Kill Bill*, Spider-Man* and The Boondock Saints. I'm a fan of Asian Cinema, both live action and animated, and some of my faves include Oldboy, The Killer (and pretty much anything else by John Woo), Ninja Scroll, Full metal Alchemist and Battle Royale. On my favorite B-Movies list:Ginger Snaps, Circutry Man*, Rock and Rule, Heavy Metal, The Rocky Horror Picture Show**, Static***, Killing Time***, Fright Night**, Harold and Maude, Knightriders***, Repo: The Genetic Opera,and Berry Gordy's The Last Dragon.

*And the sequel(s). **B-Movie Status debatable. ***You've probably never seen this, so don't fret if you don't remember it

(c) My music tastes are eclectic, from Goth to Country & Western, Celtic to Techno, Swing to old school Punk. Recently, I've rekindled my love affair with Heavy Metal. I can recommend Van Canto (a cappella heavy metal), Lordi (a Monster/Horror themed band), and Pain (not the rapper).

(d) Eat to live or live to eat? More the second. That said, I've recently had to limit my diet due to health concerns. This hasn't stopped me from eating good food, just limiting how much of it I take in at a time.

On my plate you will find dead cow, sushi, Chinese, good Italian, and I'll try virtually anything once. I occasionally like to cook and don't think I suck at it. Then again, I have burned spaghetti. Not the sauce, the noodles.

Bonus: TV shows: Firefly, Buffy, Angel, Law and Order, Crossing Jordan, Dr. Who, Torchwood, Ghost Hunters, Battlestar Galactica.

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The six things I could never do without

-Stimulation -Affection -Freedom -Reason -Beauty -Truth

I spend a lot of time thinking about

...games, religion, my friends and loved ones, how I would run my own country, the things I'm not doing, the things I need to finish soon, and at the moment, nerf guns.

On a typical Friday night I am

With my lady at a movie or indulging in good food. Perhaps playing Magic: The Gathering with friends. Sometimes comatose on the couch.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm polyamorous, meaning I believe that one can carry on multiple romantic relationships at once without detriment to anyone involved.

I'm bi. I'm not sure where I fall on the Kinsey scale but I tend to find fewer men who are my type than women who are my type.

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You should message me if

...you need a distraction.

At the moment and for some time to come, I'm going to be concentrating romantically on my wife. This means it will probably be a while before I'm in a dating mood. On the other hand, I'm still quite capable of making friends, finding people to hang out with, share ideas on the interwebs and acquire pen pals.

If any of the above interests you, I'd love to hear from you.