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32 M Ventura, CA

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  • Ages 21–35
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 4″ (1.94m)
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Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
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My self-summary
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I'll try anything once, crave adventure and experience. I'm 6'4", Swedish/Irish, have a big smile, and laugh a lot. Traditional in manners, not in activities. Gregarious. Pilot. Explorer. Diver.
What I’m doing with my life
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Recent Ventura transplant, rediscovering California life (born in the Bay Area), staying busy working for a quick-moving biofuels startup company. I also fly as a Navy Reserve pilot a few days a month.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a man of surprising talents. Doing well under pressure. Being liked by your mother, haha.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The fact that I'm really really tall. I apparently alternate between looking like Prince William, David Bowie, and Paul Bettany.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books -- After a short hiatus following 2 masters degrees, I'm back into reading! Currently on Nick Offerman's "Paddle Your Own Canoe" (He's the Ron Swanson actor)

Movies -- I like a good comedy (Knocked Up, There's Something About Mary), Sci-Fi make you think (Looper, 5th Element), or a thriller (Any Ah-nold movie, Seven). And I'm totally not one of those watch-a-movie-70-times-because-I-can't-get-enough guys.

Shows -- I'll go in waves on shows, go a few months without then binge on a whole season in 3 days. Favorites right now include: Breaking Bad, Always Sunny, The League, & Archer. I also secretly watch Downton Abbey and like it. Weird.

Music -- I like a variety of music but I'm really non-committal toward bands. I let Pandora choose for me which seems to work well for both of us. Go-to stations are "Postal Service Radio" and every once in awhile "Lana Del Rey Radio"

Food -- I will order the thing on the menu I've never tried every time. I regret it about 25% of the time in foreign countries, but never change the habit. Sting Ray, blowfish, raw horse, cockroach, live palm beetle, and Jack in the Box remain some of the stranger stuff I've ever had.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Telling (mostly true) stories with friends
Good Beer
International Traveling (no offense America)
Words With Friends (I just discovered this... addicted!)
Jelly Bellies (I'll eat these Costco packs until my stomach hurts)
Awful one-liners
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to retire when I'm 40. Why California STILL doesn't have good public trans. Making sure I use affect/effect properly. What Grizzly Adams would have thought of the internet. How we have not eradicated mosquitoes. Where I want my next travel spot to be. What qualifies as a 'keeper'.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Shooting the shit with friends or beer snobbing it up somewhere local. Imperial IPA kick lately. Not thinking about work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a nerdy side-hobby called Geocaching. GPS-marked treasure and networks of world travelers finding caches. It's more fun than it sounds I promise.
You should message me if
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You're not a midget. You're okay trying something new even though you very well might regret it. Basketball annoys you. The thought of a Coors Light makes your taste buds turn. You're bright eyed and fun. You're confident in yourself. You can't wait for me to meet you :)