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46 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:42am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In summary I am a capable sort with enough smarts, energy and ambition to get most anything done. I appreciate funny, real, and sincere. I don't much go in for mean, pretense or ego.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I recently moved to San Francisco. I have worked as a fitness and yoga instructor for the last several years, and plan to continue doing that here once I get settled in. I am also a buyer and seller of things... not things that can be ingested (or injected, for that matter) but just plain old garden variety inanimate objects, like Barbies from the 60s, Chryslers from the 50s, and houses from the 20s. I also plan to work on creating some short films, another thing I've been threatening to do for years, but just haven't really made the time for. We'll see what happens- maybe you can be in them...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching Spinning classes. Being there when the chips are down. Fixing broken mechanical things/making fabulous things out of repurposed electro-mechanica/organica antiquities. Spelling. Building things. Listening to you (which means not listening to my headspace voice asking my thinkspace what I'm going to be saying next when you're done saying the thing that I'm not really listening to). Editing. Dressing myself. Buying low and selling high. Math. Giving hand and back rubs. Wanting to learn how to play musical instruments. Interacting with people in the 2-to-11 set. Interacting with people in the 70-to-90 set...

By the way, I've left all the really interesting stuff completely out of this written profile. That way, when you meet me in person... Well, you know- it's like when your friend tells you how amazing a movie was and then you go watch it and you're like 'meh...'
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hands seem to get a lot of looks... I don't know. How are we supposed to know the answer to this question? Without going out and taking a survey, there's really no way to know. It should be more like, "The first things I'd like to think people usually notice about me..." Hmmm... Let's see- my gorgeous hair? The barely noticeable hole in my sweater? That my socks might not match?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oscar Wilde and Ayn Rand, Let the Right One In, Amelie, Annie Hall (and lots of other Woodys as well), The Empire Strikes Back, The Sting, The Royal Tenenbaums, 30 Rock and Flight of the Conchords, DeBussy, Stevie Wonder, David Bowie, Radiohead, Ennio Morricone, Blonde Redhead, Philip Glass, the Blow, and most food that is generally healthy, with a tendency to lean toward vegetarian. You know, like ice cream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I really need my glasses. I'm pretty blind without them.

I also feel that I need access to a handful of close friends.

As I have been blessed/cursed with a very high metabolism, it's a drag to have to go without breakfast fairly soon after I wake up. So that's one, breakfast…

My bicycle is pretty important- but I could probably get by without it. However, we will leave it on the list because that's a good way to let you know that I like bikes a lot.

Let's see, what are two more things I could "never" do without…

How about knowing that I am loved? Last but not least…

Photosynthesis, and everything that happens as a result of it. Uh, yes- I do mean EVERYTHING. Literally.

e v e r y t h i n g .

Since we’re on this subject, it’s interesting (and maybe disappointing, and even a little tiny bit sad?) to me how many people list their iPhone as one of the things that they could never do without. The disappointing part is that they couldn’t think of a better thing to include in a list of six superlative things. The sad part is that for many of them, it could actually be true.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I'll be and what I'll be doing in one, five or ten years. How to know that what I'm doing right now is what I should be doing to make me happy, without being too influenced by what others think. Whether or not it's a good idea to be involved in bringing another human being into this scary, overpopulated world... i.e., parenting children. This decision, incidentally, would be profoundly facilitated if the right partner came along.... What I would be doing if I had been born into a culture that is surrounded by constant war, famine and oppression. (I acknowledge that I am lucky to be here, where I don't have to worry so much about those things...).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably not doing any of the sorts of things that you would imagine I might be doing if I were the sort of person that you would prefer not to spend any time around. Wait, what?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am contemplating becoming involved in public performance ballet, although I've never done ballet of any kind, ever.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...You love and identify with that scene in Amelie towards the end of the film where they are finally together and they are riding on his moped, her arms tight around his waist, her face beaming, because finally all things are right in the universe... You need help with your Chemistry homework (but you are not still in high school)... You want to participate in some mildly edgy adventure... You like to hold hands... You are genuinely comfortable in your own skin... You like kale and quinoa but aren't afraid to eat a donut once in awhile... You think this is funny... (Type "Bootleg fireworks" into a youtube search)... You find this moving on some level...(Type "Jed's Other Poem" into a youtube search).... And finally, you are moved again, when you watch this...(Type "Born Like Stars" into a youtube search).