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flyingcoconut

39 / M / Straight / Single

Santa Rosa, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:27pm
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus
Education
College/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I was born in Chicago but left for the west coast before I was old enough to have a say in the matter, or remember. My parents are from the more historical parts of Los Angeles but decided to raise me in the wine country. I thank them for that frequently. Most people would say that I have Midwest values, which is not a bad thing.

I consider myself to be a fairly laid back, but active, go with the flow kind of guy. I enjoy the outdoors, exercise, cooking, finding new bars and restaurants and I am always excited when I can take a local drive or short road trip here in beautiful NorCal. I am starting to make up for my limited travel experiences this year with a trip to Italy in September. Ice hockey is my favorite sport but I am also a Giant's fan and enjoy soccer on TV.

As far as this online dating thing goes, it's been kinda weird but mostly good. I have found that in my line of work, it's necessary to get out of the circle of people that I spend so much time with (and to never, ever date a coworker, learned that one long ago) and see who else is out there. Balance is good. I would love to make some friends in the rest of the bay area and see where things take me.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for an amazing, locally founded air ambulance company as a flight paramedic on a helicopter. The work is rewarding in many ways and the views are spectacular. The hours can be long but the schedule is ridiculously flexible and I am working towards having more days off than I do now.
I’m really good at
...making people laugh, at me or with me. I am also pretty good at remaining calm under pressure (yes it's true, my inability to spin out of control with others involved in a situation has had me labeled as uncooperative) and lightening the mood with a well timed, if not sometimes inappropriate joke. I know my way around a kitchen, a wine list and a drinks menu.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I am not likely to go bald anytime soon.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Recent favorite books/regular reads: The Mountains of California, Israel, Nation of Warriors, The High Sierra: Peaks-Passes-Trails. The Economist, Men's Health, Esquire, Trail Runner, etc.
Movies: Connery or Craig as Bond, Where is the Front Line From Here, The Big Lebowski, Wall Street, The Breakfast Club, Saving Private Ryan, The Graduate....too many others to list.
Music: Alt rock, Jazz, Blues, Classic Rock, Classical.
Shows: Homeland, Southland, VICE, Parts Unknown, BBC World News, Hockey Night in Canada.
Food and Drink: Pretty much anything prepared with passion, doesn't need to be fancy, just good! Wine, mostly red, bourbon, cocktails and quality beer.
The six things I could never do without
My good friends and family
My trail shoes
The view of SF from the Marin Headlands
Other people's dogs
Good food and booze
History
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My backpacking trip in August and Roman Holiday in September. Going back to school. RIGHT NOW: My run in the morning. Will I get to sleep tonight at work?
On a typical Friday night I am
Of late, work has been occupying my Fridays all to frequently. Otherwise, I am out with friends or having an early night in so I can enjoy Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes, when I am driving up Highway 1 North of Jenner, where the cattle graze freely, I will lower my window and say hello to them.....I think they appreciate it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
-If you are confident, kind and people enjoy your company.
-If you like what I have to say, or want to know more, perhaps clarify a thing or two.
-If you want to grab a drink, a meal or hit the trail with someone new.
-If you would like to find a gentleman who knows how to treat a lady.
-If you want to hang out, have a good time and see what happens.
-If you like to travel globally or locally, camp or backpack.