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32 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay), Ancient Greek (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am in New York.

I studied philosophy at a small liberal arts college in Sarasota, FL.

Chart of life travels: suburbs of Baltimore to northwest Indiana to Lawrence, Kansas to southwest Florida to Chicago to New York City to Austin to Portland to San Francisco -- with some zigzagging back and forth sometimes. Within that: ~5 years in NYC, ~2 years Austin, ~1.5 yrs SF, ~6 months Portland.

I'm not really myself into newfangled identity categories like "queer" or whatever but I totally relate in spirit to notions of shattering gender binaries.

Presently I'm seeing my friend (lady friend) sagan4lyfe and we're open to the idea of hanging out with other individuals and couples.
What I’m doing with my life
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deconstructing and thwarting axes of oppression.
I’m really good at
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deconstructing and thwarting axes of oppression.
The first things people usually notice about me
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eye color, apparently.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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At points in my life I really read a lot of books, but I'm spending vastly more time reading news on the internet than reading books at this point in my life -- there's a lot of news to read. But otherwise I had also been reading a lot of books on Balkan/Ottoman history, digging into source documents, etc. (this research was toward a specific end.)

Various movies, music, but sort of cynical about the popular culture industry driving consumerism, misogyny, militarism, racism, the prison-industrial complex, etc...

Recently listening most often to: The Cars, Violent Femmes, Bowie, Pink Floyd, ELO, Dr. Dre, Ke$ha, Rebecca Black, Miley Cyrus

I like deconstructing television news through a Chomskyan prism of analysis.

I function as nearly a vegan. I sometimes eat fish now but practically never dairy or eggs (unless I know the person who has the chicken coop in a backyard or whatever). Never land animals.

I like Thai, Indian, Mediterranean. Right now my favorite fruit is the pluot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Strategies for overturning capitalism.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recently I've usually been hanging out with my lady friend.
You should message me if
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you're seriously interested in organizing a revolution (ie overthrowing the capitalist state). totally serious about that.
you'd like to hang out with sagan4lyfe and me. Maybe drink coffee, or beer, or smoke (a joint?) or whatever people do in these situations.
We're sort of interested in poly scenes although also shy about that -- but if you also have a sort-of-shy interest maybe that's something to talk about.