If wanting to meld souls and such, be prepared for an onslaught of curiosity from this end. A mate is a tricky critter to bend your life around, so I like to be well informed before the emotional acrobatics take place. Arguments, to me, seem immensely inefficient; I am a much greater fan of the patient discussion breed of problem solving. I also quite like honesty, and I find it knocks passive aggression off its high horse.
On a side note, please try to remember that no one ever does anything against you, but rather they do all that they do for themselves. Please be patient with the world around you; every one is just as delicate as you try to hide that you yourself are.
today, my google homepage mentioned a little truth in passing;
"To be able to fill leisure intelligently is the last product of civilization, and at present very few people have reached this level."
- Bertrand Russell
Leisure time is pretty important to me, and I would like to do something valuable with it rather than try to smother it to bits with distraction and defense mechanisms. It is a grand battle between raw emotional responses and organized on-puposeness.
For example, if I were to spend some time with someone, I would be far less inclined to want to watch a movie and zone out (although this can happen too), then I would be to try to interest you in some shared meditation time, tantric breathing exercises or brainstorming ideas for something we're both interested in. Or doing a project of some sort. Or, perhaps, creating great meals out of scratch. I guess that might sound a bit odd, but I like to make my time with significant others count towards both our individual self growth, as well as our growth as a twosome. Welcome to my sick and twisty world.
Interests: poking fun at self and ego, nutrition, Making fruit/vegetable smoothies in the morn, yerba mate, humility, reflexology, learning new recipes, shared goals, traveling, motivating, solutions, problem-solving, sharing, a cease and desist on power struggles, documenting patterns, yoga, neuro linguistic programming, horticultural therapy, plants, open spaces, warm climates, kindness, honesty, reconsideration,
explanations, health, longevity, the bigger picture, helping, soft words,
tender facial expressions, breathing properly, deja vus, ghosts, telepathy, vegetarianism, tantric sexuality, meaning, goosebumps you get on your face, intuition.
I am enjoying, short short life, and makin hot beverages