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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 27
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm playful, funny, smart, talented, generous and reasonably comfortable with myself. I see life as endlessly interesting, and share what I see/hear/taste/learn through my writing, drawing, films and live productions. At this stage of my life I'm hoping to find a life partner who shares my lifestyle, art style and love style, and vice versa. Im complex and have high standards for myself and others, but always willing to consider others' needs and find common ground.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Im pulling together all the threads from all the careers I've already had. Call it synthesis. And counting my blessings, of which there are many. My work style (art/journalism/investment) is integrated with my life style, and I'm productive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, writing, drawing, laughing, touching, designing, seeing things, talking about things, being friends, shopping, golf and dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Women comment on my eyes and the sound of my voice. They use to comment on my hair, but a little less so now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Foreign and noir films, BBC series, documentaries. My book reading tends to be non-fiction in support of my work: French cultural history, literary criticism, art history, philosophy, gastronomy. An occasional novel. Music: classical, jazz, world, folk, especially classical guitar, which I play. Food: endless interest in most everything, which I then write about for an on-line food journal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my art and writing projects
the beach/physical activity
the guitar/music
good food/cooking
my grown children
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the elegant, charming, funny and smart woman who will emerge in my life and join me in a lovely adventure.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sitting with friends at a dinner table or heading to a movie, restaurant, lecture or concert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have more female friends than male friends. I've never been a guy's guy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are smart and creative, nice looking, fit, affectionate, confident, fun loving, generous with your time and ready for a life of cultural exploration, domestic tranquility and maybe part-time living in Paris? London? Florence, Barcelona? Im able to make this happen if you are ready!