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for-a-fern

21 F Lakeland, FL

My Details

Last Online
Apr 26
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
Body Type
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm getting a lot of messages on here and it overwhelms me. If you message me, I'll get back to you at some point... but it may not be soon.

I'm into art, music, and people. I'm particularly into surrealism right now because it can express things inside my head unlike anything else. Music adds rhythm to my brain which is otherwise unruly. People, well... you know what people are.

I'm also into writing poetry because sometimes normal language fails me.

This is crucial--> http://deannadaydreams.tumblr.com/

I want to make people feel encouraged and supported and nourished and happy until I can't anymore. And it would be nice to get paid for it.

Lots of things are pretty and make me want to keep my eyes open.

I may or may not be a crazy cat lady.
As in... I'm a crazy cat lady.
meowww.

Let's refer to my "I'm looking for" section:

"For new friends"
"For new friends"
"For new friends"
"FOR NEW FRIENDS"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm on a college hiatus, currently looking into schools. h8 dat g8tr lyfe.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Oh, umm... things, some... things...

I seem to make people feel understood and comfortable. People generally open up to me. I'm good at understanding colors, apparently. I did this color test that measures your ability to differentiate subtle hues and I got a perfect score. So, that's cool. Right? Yeah, I think so. Here's the test: http://www.xrite.com/online-color-test-challenge I'm also super good at Mad Gab, to the point that no one likes playing with me. Oh well, LAME-Os.

I'm bad at making decisions. I'm bad at sleeping, if that's a thing. I'm bad at cursive, because I can never get a lowercase 'r' right. I'm bad at looking at silly photos of animals and not laughing. I discovered today that I am bad at opening tupperware containers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Stupid question is stupid.

I read this quote (on tumblrrrrrrr, of course) that said something like, "It's like all your life you're yellow and then someone blue brushes up against you and forever after that you're green."

I really like that.

I also read something on tumblr that said, "how many parakeets would i need for people to be like ‘yo don’t fuck with her she has a lot of parakeets’"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books, movies, shows
negligible (I know this offends a lot of people)

podcasts
yes

music
This is easier: http://www.last.fm/user/deannadaydreams

James Blake, Beach House, Radiohead, Rhye, SBTRKT, Ratatat, Airhead, Sigur Rós, Mount Kimbie, Arcade Fire, New Look, St. Vincent, Braids, Four Tet, Portishead, Purity Ring, The Weeknd, MGMT, XXYYXX, The Animals, The Doors, Gorillaz, Perfume Genius, Andrew Bird, Mogwai, Baths, Explosions in the Sky, Modest Mouse, Bon Iver, Dirty Projectors, Grimes, Suuns, Santigold, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, ...

TALK TO ME ABOUT MUSIC.

food
I like papaya in part just because it's tasty but also because I can type it as "papayayayayayay" when I tell people what I'm eating
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Myself
haha... hah... I'm so clever.

But really
1. a feeling of efficacy
2. ability to express myself
3. cheese
4. love, either the kind that stems from care or the kind that makes you want to lay naked with someone feeling their heart beat
5. music (sorry so cliche, oh well)
6. plants

and

7. art

I needed 7. None could be sacrificed.

And I can truly say I could never do without these because otherwise I would maybe roll up in a ball and hide. Forever.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
art, music, gender, sexuality, my cat, the road to self-fulfillment, how I can convince myself to make art more often, art, cheese, mental health, gender, how I can encourage myself, how I can encourage others, art, gender, my cat, plants, music, art
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
a girl with a computer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've got a lot of anxiety. I have lots of nightmares, panic attacks, and constant insomnia. Some things are harder for me than others, and I tire easily, emotionally. I don't believe the world is a terrifying place, but I've got some terrifying emotional tumors I'm trying to deal with. So, in short, I've got an anxiety/panic disorder. Oh, and bipolar II disorder. Yeah, there's that, too. Feelings are tough, man. But, don't worry. It just makes me "exotic".
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 20–26
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
This question is lamesauce.

I'll give you a few ideas:
You could message me music, visual art, poems, something funny, videos, etc.
Or you could talk to me about one of those things.
You could tell me where you'd like to travel if you had the money or time.
You could tell me your Myers-Briggs. (oh no, I went there!)