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27 / F / bisexual / Single

Saint Louis, Missouri

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am marinating, some, and tofu.

My Self-Summary

I'm just a nerdy person. I'm vegan and interested in animal rights. I'm a student getting the requirements for medical school as well.

Oh, I have two cats: Rabbit and T-Rex. I'm also the only person I know that lives in a world where a Rabbit can beat up a T-Rex.

What I’m doing with my life

Going to school. It's just that boring. hehe. I also like to go to the gym. Really. Or depending on who I'm with a club can be nice. I generally don't drink but the dancing can be fun. I spend a lot of time with my best friend. I don't read as much as I'd like to anymore because I'm usually too busy doing readings for school.

I’m really good at

being a good friend and apparently preparing vegan foods... And spoiling my nephews and niece.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes (really dark blue). My laugh (i'm told i have quite a few). The clothing I wear. My tattoos. I can be in the middle of the sentence and forget what I was saying. My face usually goes blank before my eyebrows scrunch as if this will make the word come back. Sometimes the word does come back but then I lose what went after the word. If I'm not so surprised by it, I'll finish the sentence with "yeah." I can be really silly as well as snarky. When I get too snarky one of my friends will tell me things like, "Okay Snarky, pull it back a little." haha.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies: eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, lost in translation, the hitchhiker's guide to the universe.

Books: Kitchen by Banana Yoshimoto and the hitchhiker's guide to the universe by douglas adams.

Music: social distortion, say anything, amanda palmer, dresden dolls, goldfinger, jimmy eat world, mike ness, okgo, neutral milk hotel, pearl jam...

Food: Vegan but I love ethnic foods. There's a little joint I visit called Raj's Rasoi... sooo greasy, but amazing indian food. Or Shangri-La Diner. Yummm. Let's not forget Vegadeli, either. If you want the type of foods I like... Syrian Lentil Soup, Vegan Fettuccine Alfredo, Nikujaga, Sushi, Pizza, Miso Soup, Garden Vegetable soup light on celery and carrots heavy on zucchini and yellow squash.

The six things I could never do without

Vegan Cookbooks. My friends. My cats. Books to read. A kitchen to cook in. My car.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the future. My friends.

On a typical Friday night I am

I would probably hanging out or playing video games. Something that I have trouble doing during the week.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I should be more diligent with my vitamins. Really though? I'm actually rather shy. When people get to know me they seem to forget that and are quite surprised that I am shy. I've always been shy though. Oh, and total strangers have the habit of telling me their life stories.

You should message me if

you're smart. have a sense of humor. like zombies.

However, you should refrain from messaging me if you're going to give me hell about being vegan. I won't be judging you over it so you shouldn't with me. Deal. Also, I am not thin. I'm happy the way I am.

Also, don't call me sexy. You may like the way I look, but that is not what I want to be called when you don't know me.

I don't do one night stands or anything in that realm. Don't suggest it. I am not interested.