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48 M Hebden Bridge, UK

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:02pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Hiya - I'm a creative and very physical chap, living in a cosy narrow boat on the canal. I love living on the water: close to the elements; following the seasons. I make things out of stone, words and pixels and like few things better than chucking my tent into the cycle panniers and hitting the road. And, by way of a recently added coda, it is worth saying that I am currently identifying as polyamorous - for me, a new tentitive step into ethical non-monogomy.
What I’m doing with my life
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Things that make life worth living to me are my beautiful fourteen year old son; writing; meditation; spending quality time with my friends; playing my flute and running on the fells. I'm learning, by trial and error, to write the best first novel I can - very slowly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I make a good salad dressing and I can touch the tip of my nose with my tongue.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm often on a bicycle; the buff hat on my head.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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To read: Birdsong; Wuthering Heights; The English Patient; Touching The Void; The Alchemist.
To watch: Midnight Cowboy; The Piano; Betty Blue; Kes; Life is Sweet; Brief Encounter...anything with Julie Christie in it.
To listen to: Joni Mitchell; Hendrix; Led Zep; Miles Davis; Coltrane; Dead Can Dance; Underworld; Leftfield; Joy Division; Nina Simone; Fela Kuti.

Top scran: daal; soup; roast veg; chai, expensive chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
love, words, meditation, camera, music, bicycle.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to write; how to raise a son; where we're all headed and from whence we came; sex; the next run.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My speling is rubish and I ave to use the dictionery ofen.
You should message me if
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If you're keen to grow, learn and explore alternative relationship structures; if you are sexy and sensual and care more about life, love, art and ideas than shopping - send me a message.