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sincere, laid-back, and sensual

My self-summary Propose an edit

I have been through the downs of dating and now I am looking for the ups. I am a very honest, laid-back, down-to-earth woman. I am looking for a man who can recognize and appreciate having a good woman in his corner through thick and thin. I am looking for a man who is not only honest, caring, sincere, and sensual, but a man who is not afraid of being a man. If you are looking for a woman with a Tyra Banks body.....move on and continue looking. I have a full-figure body which I know how to use to keep my man satisfied. Are you man enough?

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I am currently working in accounting full-time and taking classes online.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

I am really good at listening to others. I tend to be everyone's "Dear Abbey". I have also been told that I am good at making others laugh.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

The first thing that people notice about me is my strength and independence. The longer they know me-the more they see how genuine I am. I think it would kill me to tell a lie because I believe in telling the truth regardless of the situation. And, like a true Virgo I love with my all.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

I love James Patterson, Stephen King, Patricia Cornwell, Michael Connely, Robin Cook, Dean Koontz, Anne Rice........yes, I love to read. I like all kinds of music-if it sounds good I will listen. Foods.... a few of my favorites are seafood, Chinese, and Thai.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

I could never live without love, music, my family, honesty, a good book, and of course sex-but not in that exact order :)

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

I spend a lot of time thinking about achieving my goals and the steps I need to take to do so. I also think about meeting that special someone and showing them the true meaning of happiness and being loved.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

I am studying on a Friday night-for lack of someone to spend it with.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I do not choose to be with someone for the sole purpose of being with someone. But I do not like being alone. I am because I do not care to be with just anyone. I choose to be with someone that is right for me.

You should message me if Propose an edit

If you are looking for more than a sexual encounter or someone you just want to hook-up with from time to time, then you should message me. Face it-anyone can have sex and if the chemistry is right then it will be good sex. But, I am looking for something more substancial. The emotional just intensifies the physical.

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forarealman: 174 questions

Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it's fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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