In order to be considered as a candidate to become my sub, I have to understand your level of commitment. I fully understand that the only time you fall into commitment with me, is during prearranged times, places, etc.... I do not demand of my subs to be at my beck and call if we do not have a prearranged appointment.
Appointments. We make them, and if you have to break them then you will make it up to me. I wont have to tell you this, you will just do this. You will be timely, if not early, and you will never make an appointment that you have doubts that you can make. When at my appointment, you wear no time keeping device, my commitment to you is that I release you in time to get to your next appointment, dressed, cleaned up, bandaged if necessary, so you can make subsequent appointments outside of my purview without disclosing that you were with me previously.
You will bring to the appointment what I require, and if you have any special tools you want to be included, they all need to be brought at every appointment to be used at my discretion. There wont be an appointment where you say " you can do this but not that" It is either at my discretion, or you don't make the appointment. Again if you have to cancel, which unfortunately life does intervene, you will find some way to make it up to me as directly as you can and to my satisfaction.
Locations. You accept what ever location I choose. No questions, no objections, you just come to me as directed when we agree, and how I want you. I will assure your safety and ensure that you are protected from outside interference or prying eyes.
Confidentiality. We don't share anything about the other with anyone. I don't care about what you have going on in your other life, but when you are with me, you are mine. No exceptions. I could care less about your other boyfriend, husband, lover, abuser, what ever. You belong to me during our sessions.
Protection. Obviously until I have had an opportunity to inspect you, and a level of trust has been established, latex barriers or equivelent will be in play initially until we get to a comfort level. Additionally I will not subject you to any unneccary dangers that I haven't prepared for in advance.
Time. Life infringes upon available time. You will provide exact times and dates to your availability and then be 100% available to me for those times. I will then tell you when to come, how to come, and where to come.
Pain. This needs to be discussed up front. I can offer any level of pain or compliance you require from me. Safety words are appropriate.
Boundaries. It is important to establish a list of "wont do" up front. For instance I don't do animals, fecal or urnine, or blood unless it is incidental to the pain delivered. I would expect your listing and then stick to that listing at the bare minimum if I employ something new to you, you will give it a fair chance before adding to your boundary list.
Compliance. I seek to possess you in every capacity both mentally and physically. My desire is for you to become the instrument of my pleasure, and I like to play, hard, fast, and in the spirit of control. You become what I need most, and because if this, I need your commitment to compliance up front. If you feel you have to waiver, then again, I ask that you first try to participate, and then discuss adding something to the boundary list before rejecting. As a Dom, I am not used to being told "no", it should not come out of your mouth with any level of frequency.
Warming up. I ease you into being my sub for two reasons. First, I want this to be a long term experience and I don't need to overwhelm your senses upon the first session, and second because I need to judge your ability to be my sub. You don't automatically become my sub, you are in training, and you need to learn your place, please your Dom, and release yourself completely to my control. When I feel you have reached that level, I will start calling you my sub. Until then, you will wear and assortment of derrogatory pet names that I will give you, you will answer to all of them, object to none of them, and if they are specific to an activity, you will personify them typically.
I am not new at this. I am not timid. Do not mistake my caution and preparation as hesitation. If this is of interest to you, and you truly want to be a sub, then respond.
The first date is your opportunity to determine if you could truly fulfill your role as my sub. You would have to determine if I was what you are looking for, however, publically I would not be giving you much of that side of me. I would be very pleasent, maybe a little flirtatious, but for the most part reserved. I am very gregarious so my conversation won't be demure, but it wont revolve around what will happen in any sessions. I don't speak publically for your safety and mine, for what you will be subjected too. We can speak privately about that or via email.
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