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33 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
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My Details

Last Online
Jul 2
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm...An agnostic/atheist feminist dork? I like video games, zombie things, star wars, the joker, batman, schopenhauer, dragons, comics, evolutionary theory, biology, and other things with varying degrees of nerdiness.

OkC says I might be very Less Kind. I think that might be Less True.

I like things and dislike other things. I'd never describe myself as random and I don't really like talking about myself, just the ridiculous and infuriating events that happen. Neediness doesn't appeal to me. Oh, and I prefer interesting things to boring things.
What I’m doing with my life
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For my master's thesis in WGS, I conducted a quantitative analysis of race, gender, and sexual orientation representations in video games. I'm writing a book on it. Eventually I plan on continuing on to earn my PhD. How's that for making video game nerding sound self-righteous?
For now, I help the folks you probably avoid on the red line (program director of homeless service programs). Less Kind that, OKCupid.
...At least I had been doing that. Now I make vegan bath & beauty products and sell them:
Life is funny.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring things out.
Video games.
Magic the Gathering.
Making cigarettes.
Social work.
Simultaneous apathy and passion.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The Santa suit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like a lot of fantasy and sci-fi genre books but I also like books on science, philosophy, sociology, and psychology. Also Milan Kundera. It's a vague list but I have so many fucking books I can't pick any favorites. Besides, how would my other books feel if I did?
Movies: The Dark Knight, LOTR trilogy, Star Wars, Pan's Labyrinth and an assortment of action and comic-based movies.
Shows: The Walking Dead, Dexter, Firefly, Buffy, Veronica Mars, Jekyll and whatever random series with an overarching plot grabs my fancy for the moment.
Music: My current favorite bands are The Distillers, Flogging Molly, and Placebo. In general though, my taste is mildly eclectic I guess, and my favorite bands change with my mood. I like punk, some industrial, post-punk (Pixies), and whatever I like at the moment.
I excel at specificity, obviously.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from those things actually necessary to the continuation of my life, I could never do without my:
Multitude of game consoles - especially my PS3.
My BFF Guy pal.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
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On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
unaware that it is Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I took down the last most private thing I'm willing to admit.
You should message me if
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You feel like it, are interesting, aren't a prick, and:

Would like to play tabletop RPGs (especially Shadowrun...) or video games.
Wish that more good foods came in cans with an eating utensil included.
Have a list of favorite words you want to share.

Think that creationism has any basis in reality and feel like arguing.
Want to tell me that my musical taste sucks and feel like being ignored.

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