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38 Caldwell, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 4, 2014
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I want to give a big thanks to all the amazing people who helped me out with my OKC experiment!

For anyone who missed it, it was an experiment of what happens when you stop being politically correct and pick a profile direction and just run with it; how does it influence the people you meet, etc.

Anyhoo, now I am not sure what to do with this profile. I supposed I could keep it up and see if I meet any new and amazing people who are actually interested in discovering the REAL me rather than the one-dimensional character I had to portray :)

For right now, ask away!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a great career, and am independent.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
You'll just have to find out...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes (which are crystal blue) and my hair (which is long)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like cheesy 80s movies and anything that makes me laugh. My music tastes are pretty much all over the map, but anything with great guitar is top of the list. I dig sushi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
in no particular order:

1) humor
2) iphone
3) internet
4) curiosity
5) music
6) creativity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The same things you do. What are we doing here, where are we going, am I doing the best that I can, etc
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, or maybe in with friends. Or possibly taking a break and catching up on reading or tivo. When the weather is warmer I am out on my motorcycle somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Oh I'm sure there are several, you just have to ask the right question ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have any self-confidence left.