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32 M New Haven, CT

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:12pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Not at all
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Croatian (Fluently), Serbian (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up a long way from here. But now I am here.

Having lived in a warzone, I have a great appreciation for having the right number of limbs. And for perspective.

I grew up performing music with my family.

I love technology and the sciences. I get a kick out of solving problems.

I love working out, barefoot running, playing the piano, being in nature, dancing like Zorba the Greek (or at least trying), writing, and so on...

I also love sensitive, considerate, and honest people.

As active as I am, I believe that slowing down to enjoy everyday moments of joy and clarity is essential.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being self-employed and loving it. Ask for details.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing. Solving problems. Making people feel at ease. Competing. Getting lost in the moment. Being the fly in the ointment. Being curious and quizzical.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have gotten comments about my smile and my jawline.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: 1984, L'Étranger, The Little Prince, The Selfish Gene, What Do You Care What Other People Think?, Five Easy Pieces, Consciousness Explained, The Dervish and Death, I Am a Strange Loop, Society of Mind.

Movies: Sunshine, Fearless, Le Grand Bleu, The Truman Show, The Forbidden Planet, La Nuovo Cinema Paradiso, Blade Runner, Training Day, High Noon, Moon, Le Samourai, No Country for Old Men.

Also, anything with zombies - preferably if they can sprint for hours at a time. Zombies are hilarious.

Shows: Star Trek: The Next Generation, Stargate, Battlestar Galactica, Game of Thrones.

Music: Trance, Bach, Debussy, Beethoven, Radiohead, Rodney Crowell, The Eagles, Pink Floyd, Bob Seger, Smashing Pumpkins, 80s Dreamwave, and so on, ad nauseam.

I like all kinds of foods, but most days I follow a Paleo type diet. So I will likely pass on the pizza and take liver, veggies, and berries instead.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am including people and activities as well...

1. The joy of being
2. Family and closest friends
3. Expanding my boundaries
4. Beauty
5. Music
6. Hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Possible futures. Money and freedom. How to grow and develop. Cosmology, Psychology. Physics. Biotechnology. J. S. Bach's Goldberg Variations. Vulnerability.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either working or going to a party / play / concert / dance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no shirt on.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are an interesting and warm-hearted person. You say what you mean and mean what you say. And if you find it easy to laugh at yourself. Big egos are *so* silly.