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  • Ages 23–49
  • Near me
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Last online
Yesterday – 2:54pm
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), Croatian (Fluently), Serbian (Fluently), French (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I was born across the pond. At a pretty early age I began performing music with my family.

Having lived in a warzone for several years, I acquired a great appreciation for having the right number of limbs, for dark humor, and for perspective.

I love technology and science. I get a kick out of solving problems. I also love sports, playing the piano, completely barefoot running, being in nature, farm volunteering, juggling, dancing like Zorba the Greek (or at least trying), writing and performing poetry...

As active as I tend to be most days, I also believe that slowing down to enjoy everyday moments of joy and clarity is essential.

I enjoy meditating - whether while sitting, running, or otherwise. It helps to be collected and present in an often frantic, fast-paced world.

P.S. Keep in mind that I cannot see who you are if you 'like' me. A short message would work much better!
What I’m doing with my life
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Something unique. Ask for details.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing. Solving problems. Making people feel at ease. Competing. Getting lost in the moment. Being the fly in the ointment. Being curious and quizzical.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have gotten comments about my smile and my pronounced jawline.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: 1984, L'Étranger, What Do You Care What Other People Think?, Five Easy Pieces, The Dervish and Death, The Little Prince, The Selfish Gene, I Am a Strange Loop, Society of Mind.

Movies: Sunshine, Fearless, Le Grand Bleu, The Truman Show, The Forbidden Planet, La Nuovo Cinema Paradiso, Blade Runner, Training Day, High Noon, Moon, Le Samourai, No Country for Old Men.

Also, anything with zombies. Zombies are hilarious.

Shows: Star Trek: The Next Generation, Battlestar Galactica, Game of Thrones, Tennis broadcasts, the old Sherlock Holmes with Jeremy Brett.

Music: Trance, Bach, Beethoven, Chopin, Debussy, Radiohead, Rodney Crowell, The Eagles, Pink Floyd, Bob Seger, Smashing Pumpkins, 80s Dreamwave, and so on, ad nauseam.

I like all kinds of food, but most days I follow a Paleo-ish type diet. So I will politely decline that delicious pizza and take liver, veggies, nuts, and berries instead.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Including people and activities as well:

1. The joy of being
2. Family and closest friends
3. Expanding boundaries
4. Beauty
5. Music
6. Hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Possible futures. Money and freedom. J. S. Bach's Goldberg Variations. How to grow and develop. Cosmology. Psychology. Physics. Biotechnology. Artificial intelligence. Cognitive dissonance. Emotions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either working at home or going to a play / concert / dance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have no shirt on.
You should message me if
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You are an interesting and warm-hearted person. You say what you mean and mean what you say. You seek the truth even when doing so is unpleasant. And while capable of being serious, you also find it easy to laugh at yourself and at life's absurdities.