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31 M New Haven, CT

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:53am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Not at all
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Croatian (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
I grew up a long way from here. But now I am here.

I got to see some uncommon things as a child, having lived in a war zone. That experience has given me a great appreciation for humor. It has also given me an appreciation for having the right number of limbs. In fact, I feel that limbs are highly underrated.

A few more bits:

I grew up performing music with my family.

I love technology and science and get a kick out of figuring things out.

I also love working out, barefoot running, playing the piano, writing poetry, being in nature, dancing like Zorba the Greek (or at least trying), gaming, being around smart and sensitive people, and self-development in general.

As active as I am, I believe that slowing down to enjoy moments of joy and clarity is essential.
What I’m doing with my life
Being self-employed and enjoying it very much. Ask me for details.
I’m really good at
Laughing. Solving problems. Making people feel at ease. Competing. Getting lost in the moment. Being the fly in the ointment. Being curious and quizzical.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have gotten comments about my pronounced jawline and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: 1984, L'Étranger, The Little Prince, The Selfish Gene, What Do You Care What Other People Think?, Five Easy Pieces, Consciousness Explained, The Dervish and Death, I Am a Strange Loop, Society of Mind.

Movies: Sunshine, Fearless, Le Grand Bleu, The Truman Show, The Forbidden Planet, Blade Runner, Training Day, High Noon, Moon, Le Samourai, No Country for Old Men.

Also, anything with zombies - preferably if they can sprint for hours at a time. Zombies are hilarious.

Music: Trance, Bach, Debussy, Beethoven, Radiohead, Rodney Crowell, The Eagles, Pink Floyd, Bob Seger, Smashing Pumpkins, 80s Dreamwave, and so on, ad nauseam...

I like all kinds of foods, but most days I follow a Paleo type diet. So I will likely pass on the pizza and take liver, veggies, and berries instead.
The six things I could never do without
1. The joy of being
2. Family and closest friends
3. Empathetic and honest people
4. The feeling of expanding my boundaries
5. A piano keyboard
6. Hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Possible futures. Money and freedom. How to grow and develop. J. S. Bach's Goldberg Variations. Why so many people are afraid to love unguardedly.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either playing poker or going to a party / play / concert / dance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no shirt on. And I am fine with that. No pun intended.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are an interesting and warm-hearted person. And if you find it easy to laugh at yourself. Big egos are *so* silly.