Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two
chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are
transformed" Carl Jung.
I am driven by ethics and aesthetics more than moral codes of
today's society. I have quite a warm, tactile, positive,
compassionate, affectionate and passionate personality.
I see myself as a witty, sharp-minded, very refreshing, intelligent
enough-always ready to replace my attitude, behaviour etc with the
Well, what I am expecting from a gentleman to have ;
First of all; I am looking for 'a good man' not 'a nice man'. If
necessary, I will tell the difference when we talk with this
qualities; a man who is open minded, confident, a little bit
intensive -not laid back-, sensitive, generous and someone who is
looking for freedom through togetherness.
Although having the same interests would be better, I believe real
life and relationship are much more than hobbies and sports.
That's why having similar or same values are much more precious for
me more than anything else to have a real intimacy and deep
I believe things are much more fun when we learn something together
or teach something each other if we want to share mutual interest.
Even if we don't like it at the end, it would still be fun to share
the excitement of it and get to know each other in a different
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am asking the same question to myself:-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Let's leave something blank to talk about when we meet.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Without exception ; my smile, my peaceful voice with charming
accent, my intelligence, my shape, sparkling eyes and my eyebrows.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This part is also another thing to talk about when we meet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Looking for the truth in everything no matter how much it hurts and
difficult to digest.
Beauty in anything
Hug - How sad that I never see people give each other a proper,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the hell am I doing here? What is wrong with me? ;-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If I like your profile, look and the way you contact with me, I
assume that you fit all the criteria I am looking for the beginning
with below. Then, I reply to you ( never endless messages including
whatsaap, this is crazy!).
Interaction must be real after several messages. Okcupid is a tool
to find one another. That's it! Don't exaggerate it's role! It is
not a nest or date place!
If your beauty understanding is deeper than 'physical' one.
Have a proper profile. If not, then you should be able to start
with a good message.
If you want to talk to me make sure your profile based on 'values'
not 'interests and look' to meet my criteria. I am not looking for
an activity friends or models.
You know what you want and why you want to talk to me regardless
what Okcupid robot thinks about us.
You think you are emotionally & sexually mature.
You are intelligent -not intellectuals not one of them who walks
like a walking library but at the same time he is not able to add
any values & dimension to the moment, interaction.
If you are able to go with the flow when you chat remembering
gathering information from each other isn't an interaction but
interview. Be spontaneous!
If you have a kind heart and good values.
(All your one word messages like 'Hi, selam, Hello, how are you?'
messages go directly to my 'filtered box' and I delete them all
together without reading.
That's why make sure you read the profile fully before get in touch
not to cause waste anyone's time including mine).
If your message didn't go to my filter box I definitely read your
profile every single details without exception. My touch with you
will be very personal. Not one of the boring cliches 'can I get to
know you more' or what is your plan at the weekend cliches'
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.