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PearlyPearl71

44 London, UK Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:52pm
Orientation
Straight
Height
5′ 0″ (1.53m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Turkish (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed" Carl Jung.

I am driven by ethics and aesthetics more than moral codes of today's society. I have quite a warm, tactile, positive, compassionate, affectionate and passionate personality.

I see myself as a witty, sharp-minded, very refreshing, intelligent enough-always ready to replace my attitude, behaviour etc with the better ones-.

Well, what I am expecting from a gentleman to have ;

First of all; I am looking for 'a good man' not 'a nice man'. If necessary, I will tell the difference when we talk with this qualities; a man who is open minded, confident, a little bit intensive -not laid back-, sensitive, generous and someone who is looking for freedom through togetherness.

Although having the same interests would be better, I believe real life and relationship are much more than hobbies and sports.
That's why having similar or same values are much more precious for me more than anything else to have a real intimacy and deep connection.

I believe things are much more fun when we learn something together or teach something each other if we want to share mutual interest. Even if we don't like it at the end, it would still be fun to share the excitement of it and get to know each other in a different scene..
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am asking the same question to myself:-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Let's leave something blank to talk about when we meet.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Without exception ; my smile, my peaceful voice with charming accent, my intelligence, my shape, sparkling eyes and my eyebrows.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This part is also another thing to talk about when we meet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dignity
Looking for the truth in everything no matter how much it hurts and difficult to digest.
Beauty in anything
Hug - How sad that I never see people give each other a proper, warm hug.-
Smile -
Ethics
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the hell am I doing here? What is wrong with me? ;-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If I like your profile, look and the way you contact with me, I assume that you fit all the criteria I am looking for the beginning with below. Then, I reply to you ( never endless messages including whatsaap, this is crazy!).

Interaction must be real after several messages. Okcupid is a tool to find one another. That's it! Don't exaggerate it's role! It is not a nest or date place!

If your beauty understanding is deeper than 'physical' one.

Have a proper profile. If not, then you should be able to start with a good message.
If you want to talk to me make sure your profile based on 'values' not 'interests and look' to meet my criteria. I am not looking for an activity friends or models.

You know what you want and why you want to talk to me regardless what Okcupid robot thinks about us.

You think you are emotionally & sexually mature.

You are intelligent -not intellectuals not one of them who walks like a walking library but at the same time he is not able to add any values & dimension to the moment, interaction.

If you are able to go with the flow when you chat remembering gathering information from each other isn't an interaction but interview. Be spontaneous!

If you have a kind heart and good values.

(All your one word messages like 'Hi, selam, Hello, how are you?' messages go directly to my 'filtered box' and I delete them all together without reading.
That's why make sure you read the profile fully before get in touch not to cause waste anyone's time including mine).

If your message didn't go to my filter box I definitely read your profile every single details without exception. My touch with you will be very personal. Not one of the boring cliches 'can I get to know you more' or what is your plan at the weekend cliches'