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43 F Istanbul, Turkey

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:09pm
5′ 0″ (1.53m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), Turkish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(I live in London but for holiday I will be in Turkey by mid-September ).

Profilimin ozellikle 'kimler yazmali- kismini okuduktan sonra yazin lutfen. Profiliniz forografsizsa, hakkinizda bilgi verecek kadar detayli degilse ya yazmayin ya da bir kac cumlelik iyi bir giris mesajiyla baslayin)

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed" Carl Jung

I am driven by ethics and aesthetics more than moral codes of today's society. I have quite a warm, tactile, positive, compassionate, affectionate and passionate personality.

I see myself as a witty, sharp-minded, very refreshing, intelligent enough-always ready to replace my attitude, behaviour etc with the better ones-.

Well, what I am expecting from a gentleman to have ;

Short version of him ; I am looking for 'a good man' not 'a nice man'. If necessary, I will tell the difference when we talk.

Positive attitude, manners, open mindness, confidence, a little bit intensity -not laid back-, sensitive. generosity,
Affectionate, compassionate, and emotional-sexual maturity,
Looking for freedom through togetherness&commitment are the features a gentleman to have that I want to be with. Although having the same interests would be better, I believe real life and relationship are much more than hobbies and sports.
That's why having similar or same values are much more precious for me more than anything else to have a real intimacy and deep connection.

I believe things are much more fun to learn something together or teach something we want to share mutual interest. Even if we don't like at the end, it would still be fun to share the excitement and get to know each other a bit more in a different scene.

I was married and a stepmother of my ex 2 gorgeous sons. I must say that was the deepest and most amazing experience I have ever had. We added a lot to each others lives and made each other better people. After that life changing experience, I believe that being a biological mum or dad doesn't make that much sense if you are not able to make your heart 'nest' for them. They will forget everything about what you have bought or not able to bought them but they will never forget what you have (not) given them from your bottom of your heart and how you have you made them feel deep inside.

So, I am open to all the ideas from having or not having my own or sharing the love and beauty of his children with the man I am going to be as I am a real mum at the bottom of my heart.

(Turkiye'deki arkadaslara duyurulur; genc arkadaslar butun guzelim iltifatlariniz icin cok tesekkur ederim ama 38 yasin altindaki beylerle ilgilenmiyorum. Evlenmis bosanmis cocugu olmus ya da uzun yillar birlikte yasamislik tecrubesi olanlar terchimdir. Sonra yok ben duymadim, ben gormedim demeyin :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am asking the same question to myself:-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Let's leave something blank to talk about when we meet.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Without exception ; my smile, my peaceful voice with charming accent, my intelligence, my shape, sparkling eyes and my eyebrows.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This part is also another thing to talk about when we meet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Looking for the truth in everything no matter how much it hurts and difficult to digest.
Beauty in anything
Hug - How sad that I never see people give each other a proper, warm hug.-
Smile -
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the hell am I doing here? What is wrong with me? ;-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no such a term in my life.. But try not to be outside as I find everywhere too noisy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a good guy who knows what he is doing and have a serious intention to build a family.

If you love children. (I don't have a child. I don't feel that I have to have one either but even if you don't, not loving children is a deal breaker for me).

If you are older than 38 - I am very strict about that.

I don't speak text language and are able to string a good full sentence rather than 'how are you?' type of questions. I don't reply them.

You now what you want and why you want to talk to me regardless what Okcupid robot thinks about us.

You have no intention to exchange endless and ready to take another step towards meeting believing that online. communication is quite time consuming.

You have a good sense of humour.

You think you are emotionally & sexually mature.

You are intellectually curious .

If your beauty understanding is deeper than 'physical' beauty.

You are looking for a long term relationship or more..

If you have a good heart, strong character and good values. Regardless where you live. I would like to hear from you as I might consider relocating.