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50 M Amherst, MA

My Details

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am currently in the midst of a somewhat prolonged transitional phase in my life, both professionally and personally. Professionally, I was a lawyer for 20 years but I am now working on a PhD in science. Personally, until quite recently I had been in a long-term committed relationship, and now I find myself on my own again. I am in some respects the opposite of those people who write, in their profiles, that they have an unshakable sense of who they are and what they want from life. I am still working on figuring it all out, at least for the time being.
What I’m doing with my life
I am changing careers, and in the course of retraining I am learning a ton of new stuff.
I’m really good at
learning and remembering things, both meaningful and trivial. I also think of myself as a very good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
This one I'm really not sure about. I am tall, but not exceptionally so. One thing that probably comes across very quickly is that I can be rather quiet and serious; it is only after I get comfortable around someone new that I become more talkative and lighthearted.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am generally a voracious reader -- mostly nonfiction, although I will sometimes go heavy on the fiction for long stretches of time. Musically, my favorites by far are blues and jazz, but I can listen to (and enjoy) pretty much anything. For some reason I have lately seen few movies and even fewer television shows. (I need to get out more!)
The six things I could never do without
the new
the familiar
a good friend
food for thought
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what is going to happen next in my life. Just about anything is still possible, and that is pretty exciting to contemplate.
On a typical Friday night I am
decompressing at home, to be perfectly honest. But I would gladly make better use of my Friday evenings if the opportunity were to present itself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't really think of anything I would be unwilling to disclose. ("Admit" is not the right word here.) But I can't guarantee that anyone would find my disclosures even slightly interesting.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 43–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are at all inclined to find out more. I think I am probably much better at responding to messages than I am at completing a profile like this one.