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51 M Amherst, MA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 44–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:55pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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This self-summary is now long overdue for a rewrite. It's been sitting here mostly unchanged since the Spring of 2013. Unacceptable, obviously. Also, I've been told more than once that my original profile said too much about what I do and not enough about who I am. Of course that's a harder question, but I will give it my best shot. I am a kind and thoughtful person, somewhat quiet and serious but fully capable of loosening up and carrying my side of just about any conversation. Not great at small talk, but brimming with opinions, facts, factoids and other information (trivia, basically). I have become a bit of a workaholic and I'm not at all pleased about that. I am honest and sincere, and I treat others with respect at all times. So there you have it -- me in a small nutshell.
What I’m doing with my life
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Becoming more overeducated.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
learning and remembering things (I have a pretty impressive memory). I also think of myself as a very good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Height, maybe? The truth is I have no idea what people usually notice. It's very likely that I've never asked anyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I mostly read nonfiction, and that makes it really hard to choose favorites. This is an easier question when it comes to music: My favorites by far are blues and jazz. There are very few things I enjoy more than seeing a live blues performance. But I can also listen to (and enjoy) pretty much anything else. Same goes for movies. Not a TV watcher at all; I'm afraid that if I got started I would spend way too much time doing it. I do occasionally waste time watching sports on the computer (but not obsessively, I promise). Food-wise, as long as it's meatless I'm happy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
newspaper, music, coffee, gym, library, car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what comes next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
decompressing at home, to be perfectly honest. But I would gladly make better use of my Friday evenings -- I just need some good company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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No secrets. Ask and I'll gladly answer.
You should message me if
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Well, you just should. I mean, why not? And I'm definitely much better at responding to messages than I am at completing a profile like this one.