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fotophinish

52 M San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:24pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Would like to find someone to do things and go places with. My parents blessed me with a good balance of left brain (logical) and right brain (creative); I find myself fairly adaptable to anything. I'm divorced and would like to meet new friends or special someone and explore what adventures are ahead; hope that involves a lot of laughter and fun and even connection at an intimate level. I have a wide range of interests and am multifaceted; been told I'm a renaissance man (polymath).

I enjoy the arts, live performances (bands, plays, musicals), cooking, outdoor activities, sports (playing and spectating), music, movies, museums, zoos, and even home projects. But most of all, quality time with my two teenage sons (who live with their mother).

I'm still old-school and appreciate all the things that the younger generation never experienced. I prefer face-to-face conversations and interactions, and try not to be a slave to technology. I prefer pinball machines over video games, real sports over Wii sports, homemade over gourmet.

Would like someone who is health and fitness conscious, not only for the appearance, but for the mindset and lifestyle.

BTW... PLEASE have a picture (or two) where I can see your eyes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After a long hi-tech career, I became a school teacher (and coach tennis at the school). I'm also a freelance photographer, graphic designer, and an actor. Always try to seeking and enjoy what life has to offer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a friend (listening and understanding)
Cooking
Art projects
Figuring out how things work and how to fix things
Assembling IKEA furniture
Kissing (I've been told)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Smile
Positive attitude and energy
Easy going and open minded
Confident and humble
Physically fit and athletic
My presence (which you can't see or feel online)
I love what I do and do what I love
Most people are shocked when I tell them my age
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TV: Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives; Big Bang Theory, Hawaii Five-O, CSI's, documentaries (like 60 minutes, 20/20, Nightline), ESPN, How I Met Your Mother, Family Guy
Movies: Avengers/superheros, James Bond, Mobsters, Jackie Chan's, action movies (like Die Hard, Lethal Weapon), Star Wars
Shows: I'm a stage performer, so I appreciate all productions
Musics: Oldies, Motown, old-school soul R&B, 70's, 80's, Beatles, Green Day, Beach Boys, Michael Jackson, ska, reggae, classical, jazz, big band.
Food: Pretty much anything; sushi, Thai, Chinese, dim sum, curry, Korean, Vietnamese, BBQ, spicy food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids (especially when they say, "I love you, Dad.")
My family
My health (physical and mental)
Great friends
Humor
A balanced life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things that matter
"What am I going to do when I grow up?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever comes up. Don't really have a "typical Friday".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Wasted my time and energy on Craigslist personals
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you're looking for good conversation, a friend, someone to laugh with or at, an activity partner, a date, something casual, or someone to explore the possibilities and experiment with.

I'll be impressed if you initiate the messages, and I won't think you're being forward, but see it as a sign of confidence.

Definitely message me, if you can explain to me why women post pictures of their feet (This is the biggest mystery to me EVER.)

Please do not message me if you don't have any pictures posted, or posted pictures with you in sunglasses only. I'm a photographer, so I'm all about the eyes.

Please do not message me if all you can write is "Hi", "Hi there", "Hey there", and nothing else. At least make a comment about my profile or picture or something, so I know at least you've looked at my profile.

Please do not message me if you get paid for your services. You know what I mean, and you know who you are.

Please do not message me if you need US citizenship.

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