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37 M Melbourne, Australia

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5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Vietnamese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
*Reformed martial artist seeks semi-random female (with a nice smile) that enjoys a challenge...*

Firstly some minor details that probably need to be addressed in order to clear up any potential confusion... Whilst being asian (see picture for evidence), the limit of my martial arts training has been a few semsters of tai chi many moons ago...

So now that I've misdirected you into my profile, perhaps I should make it worth your while and begin revealing random bits about myself?

I could be described as an open minded, well rounded individual that has attempted to infuse eastern and western philosophies/mindsets (and humour) to achieve a balanced, yet not overtly serious outlook on life.

Another way of describing myself would be that I'm a nice, quietly confident, pseudo-nerd that is seeking something different that will stimulate my interest...

Nice - The usual... considerate, respectful, good family values, gentlemanly even... with the added bonus of being well educated and with reasonable sense of humour - all the usual stuff that would might interest the parents when they meet a guy that their daughter is dating.

Quietly confident - Naturally introverted but with great confidence in my abilities (most of the time!)

Psuedonerd - Not the studious type yet have somehow completed a a few degrees

Something different - According to stereotypes, nice asian boys hook up with nice 'traditional' quiet/submissive asian girls. Whilst I'm sure there are some nice ones out there, I know that its not the right fit for me.

Stimulating my interest - Someone with intelligence and a captivating personality. A person that can light up my day with a wink or smile yet be willing to challenge me routinely to new and different things.

At various times others have, described me as intelligent, having a wicked sense of humour, being a really nice guy, a great friend, mysterious (on ocassion) and of course the usual, I cant believe its not bu... ehh... dont understand why you are single thing.

Oh and that challenge thing mentioned right at the very start? - well apparently that would be me. Anyone up for a challenge? :)
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to be free thinking*, vague^, and tasty#

* - not to be locked into convention and to be willing to question ideas
^ - continually overlooking small details as I get excited with the big picture and all the handwaving that comes with it
# - personality wise, hopefully I'm not an acquired taste but someone that people want to spend time. Oh, and given that most things are reported to taste like chicken, surely I must be tasty...

Careerwise, I'm a scientist that dabbles in molecular biology and virology. I also carry a camera on occasion in order to hang around real photographers :)
I’m really good at
making people laugh, research
The first things people usually notice about me
that I'm a left handed asian bloke
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(A) Nuddy... ehhh, wrong browser page - Musashi, Medical fiction
(B) Kill Bill movies, Hero, Fearless, Failsafe, Fightclub,
(C) Most things from the 30s big band through to 2008-ish combined with a bit of Jazz, country and world tunes - 31/5/13 currently listening to :D
(D) Chicken? Enjoy most foods except green stuff (such an unnatural colour...)

When it comes to food, variety is the key - I enjoy exploring different tastes (african, indian, italian, moroccan, greek, spanish, chinese, thai, japanese, vietnamese etc), though can also be quite content with either a pie, steak and chips, chicken parma, even a bowl of rice and some stirfry.
The six things I could never do without
Good food and drink
Good music
Good people
Good humour
Good discussion
Good s......

Pretty much the good stuff (oh, and the last one was sports in case you got the wrong idea^^)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the who, what, where, why and how of things
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I would like to meet someone that can capture (and hold) my interest. Essentials would be having an open mind and a great sense of humour. Bonus points is you are multilingual or have an interest in languages, enjoy physical activity or travel (preferably with me).

You dont have to be asian, a brain surgeon or a supermodel - In fact, I think I'd prefer if you were none of the above :)

Note: The asian comment doesnt exclude asians, more a statement that I am open to dating 'non-asian'. As for the other bit, supermodels are too skinny (normal models welcome)

If interested, say feel free to say hi