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30 F Tokyo, Japan

My Details

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Native American, White
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Very content bisexual lady in a truly open relationship. I love to read, write, take photos, ride my bike, go to art museums, nerd out on the internet, attempt recipes from online cooking sites, run around the Palace, obsess over HBO dramas, purchase MAC cosmetics and drink craft beers.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying my career as a hot librarian (on hold at the moment while I'm living the glamorous expat lifestyle), learning Japanese, working on art projects, evolving into a runner, rereading Murakami's books, blogging ceaselessly and bike commuting.
I’m really good at
Drawing, writing, listening to other's problems, doing makeup, advising people on what beers to try, reviewing and adding metadata to everything on earth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Librarians are a breed are known for voracious book consumption and I am no different. My favorite writers include Kafka, Haruki Murakami, Yoko Ogawa, George Saunders, Junot Diaz, Bill Bryson, Banana Yoshimoto, Karen Russell, Barry Yourgrau (absurdist micro fiction, swooon) and Cheryl Strayed.

Books: The Rum Diary by Hunter S. Thompson, A Yellow Raft in Blue Water by Michael Dorris, The African Safari Papers by Robert Sedlack, Tipping the Velvet by Sara Waters, The Book Thief by Markus Zusak, South of the Border West of the Sun by Haruki Murakami, Wild by Cheryl Strayed, The Lover's Dictionary by David Levithan, The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran, Just Kids by Patti Smith, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close by Jonathan Safran Foer and Fun Home by Alison Bechdel are just a few of the books I love with my whole heart.

Movies: The Fall, The Prestige, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Hot Rod, Stranger than Fiction, Gattaca, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Clue, The Game, Running Scared (it's so wonderfully atrocious), Frida, Harold and Kumar go to Whitecastle, The Iron Giant, and pretty much any horror film.

Shows: I'm a media junkie obsessed with a good storyline. Right now I'm frothing at the mouth over True Detective. Current obsessions include House of Cards, Breaking Bad (perpetually obsessed) and the Walking Dead.

Music: I'm constantly looking for new music to work out to, add to my naked dance party playlists or to serve as a subtle backdrop to my endless internet surfing. All time favorites include: Phoenix, Passion Pit, Putamayo World Music, The Jackson 5, Third Eye Blind, Brown Derbies, Marry Me Jane, Ani Difranco, Red Hot Chili Peppers and MIKA. I love a lot of junky pop music and have no shame about that fact. Musical elitism is boring and unoriginal. Also I'll see pretty much anyone live.

Food: Sweet tea, meat and potatoes (southern lady here). For my last meal I'd go with one of the following: a burger and fries, a pork quesadilla (from Taco Bus specifically), a schnitzel with hot potato salad or chicken pad thai. I pretty much eat anything except seafood, and I'm working on that one.
The six things I could never do without
The Internet (blogs, computers, everything entailed)
Savage Love podcasts
Q tips
My camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Books, current events, GLBTQ issues, healthy living, goal setting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out at the bar with friends, staying in with a good book or movie and some vodka tonics or having people over for an impromptu living room dance party followed by karaoke at our neighborhood dive.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 20–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're a thoughtful, considerate, fun loving, talkative person. If you're into open relationships. If you currently live in Japan. I'm looking for people to actually connect with, so I'm not interested in meeting anyone who is just passing through.