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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:30pm
Native American, White
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Polyamorous bisexual lady primarily interested in meeting women at the moment. I love to read, write, take photos, ride my bike, go to art museums, nerd out on the internet, attempt recipes from online cooking sites, run around the Palace, obsess over HBO dramas, purchase MAC cosmetics and drink craft beers.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying my career as a hot librarian (on hold at the moment while I'm living the glamorous expat lifestyle), learning Japanese, teaching English, working on art projects, evolving into a runner, rereading Murakami's books, blogging ceaselessly and bike commuting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing, writing, listening to other's problems, doing makeup, advising people on what beers to try, reviewing and adding metadata to everything on earth.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My curves and my curls.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Librarians are a breed are known for voracious book consumption and I am no different. My favorite writers include Kafka, Haruki Murakami, Yoko Ogawa, George Saunders, Junot Diaz, Bill Bryson, Banana Yoshimoto, Karen Russell, Barry Yourgrau (absurdist micro fiction, swooon) and Cheryl Strayed.

Books: The Rum Diary by Hunter S. Thompson, A Yellow Raft in Blue Water by Michael Dorris, The African Safari Papers by Robert Sedlack, Tipping the Velvet by Sara Waters, The Book Thief by Markus Zusak, South of the Border West of the Sun by Haruki Murakami, Wild by Cheryl Strayed, The Lover's Dictionary by David Levithan, The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran, Just Kids by Patti Smith, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close by Jonathan Safran Foer and Fun Home by Alison Bechdel are just a few of the books I love with my whole heart.

Movies: The Fall, The Prestige, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Hot Rod, Stranger than Fiction, Gattaca, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Clue, The Game, Running Scared (it's so wonderfully atrocious), Frida, Harold and Kumar go to Whitecastle, The Iron Giant, and pretty much any horror film.

Shows: I'm a media junkie obsessed with a good storyline. Right now I'm frothing at the mouth over Game of Thrones (who isn't?). Current obsessions and past loves include Breaking Bad, Mad Men, 6 Feet Under, The Walking Dead, The Knick, Fargo and Sons of Anarchy - even though the finale royally pissed me off.

Music: I'm constantly looking for new music to work out to, add to my naked dance party playlists or to serve as a subtle backdrop to my endless internet surfing. All time favorites include: Phoenix, Passion Pit, Putamayo World Music, The Jackson 5, Third Eye Blind, Brown Derbies, Marry Me Jane, Ani Difranco, Red Hot Chili Peppers and MIKA. I love a lot of junky pop music and have no shame about that fact. Musical elitism is boring and unoriginal. Also I'll see pretty much anyone live.

Food: Sweet tea, meat and potatoes (southern lady here). For my last meal I'd go with one of the following: a burger and fries, a pork quesadilla (from Taco Bus specifically), a schnitzel with hot potato salad or chicken pad thai. I pretty much eat anything except seafood, and I'm working on that one.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet (blogs, computers, everything entailed)
Savage Love podcasts
Q tips
My camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Books, current events, GLBTQ issues, healthy living, goal setting.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out at the bar with friends, staying in with a good book or movie and some vodka tonics or having people over for an impromptu living room dance party followed by karaoke at our neighborhood dive.
You should message me if
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You're a thoughtful, considerate, fun loving, talkative person. If you're into open relationships. If you currently live in Japan. I'm looking for people to actually connect with, so I'm not interested in meeting anyone who is just passing through.