I'm intelligently ditsy, confidently shy, and seriously funny. I'm not your average woman, and I'm not looking for an average man. I am a writer, love to read, love comedy, on TV Peep Show, Mighty Boosh, QI, Have I Got Newsanything dark and quirky. I am a single mum of a 4 year old, so would welcome a family man, but he has to be young at heart and in mind. I usually date younger men but not under 35, and I look much younger than I am. I need someone who can stimulate me mentally as well as physically and emotionally. My rating of my real age test puts me at 35 and I scored as a liberated lover.

Looking for part time work at the moment whilst writing my novel. Just out of a 3 month relationship, amicable split and still friends. I don't get out much as I am not earning and stay in lots at night. In the days I'm out and about doing junk shops, seeing family and friends and shopping. I love laughing with friends,critical debating and discussing psychology and philosophy, watch good quality drama such as Dexter, Lost, Mad men, but can also watch rubbish and pick it to bits for a laugh. I am interested in almost everything but most sports, but keep fit by walking almost every day and swimming in the summer.

Writing, making people laugh dry sense of humour and profound sense of the ridiculous. I'm always there for a friend in need, coping in a crisis, being adaptable,fidelity spontaneousness, adventurousness, caring, loyalty, independence, fun, supportiveness, doing the do if you can too.

Long blonde hair, smile, boobs talk to the face please!, caring, interesting, knowledgable, fair,warm, dry soh, stylish but casual.

Books - Time Travellers Wife, Crimson Petal and the White, Star of the Sea, Beloved, Orlando, Perfume, Candide Ninn, Brontes, Atwood, Munro etc. etc

Films: Movies (big fan, not a buff, don't care who the key grip was on Titanic, hate Titanic) - Goodfellas, Godfather, Apocalypse Now, Heart of Darkness,Breakfast at Tiffany's, Philedelphia Story The Women Tarantino, Scorcese, Billy Wilder, Night of the Hunter, The Innocents, Big Lebowski, Blood Simple, Fargo, Memento, Being John Malkovitch, Pulp Fiction, Third Man, Some like it Hot, The Apartment, most Billy Wilder films, Touch of Evil (master opening shot), Prefer North by Northwest to Vertigo, but stll love it, Withnail and I and the Camberwell Carrot! Delicatessen, (had a bed like that till recently), His Girl Friday and The Women, All about Eve, Imitation of Life, Toy Story and Shrek, Jules et Jim, Romuald et Juliet. Robert Altman, Scorcese, Goodfellas, Apocalypse Now (not Redux - sacrilege) Heart of Darkness, Blow Up, Blade Runner,Klute, many, many US indies, and many, many, many more. Published in film criticism

Iggy Pop, Lou Reed, Bowie, White Stripes, Beck, Specials, Portishead, Massive Attack, Eno, REM, Leftfield, Chemical Brothers, Eric Satie, Puccini, Carmina Burana, Verdi, Nina Simone, but love Love Me Or Leave Me over My Baby Just Cares, Talvin Singh, Goldie, Roni Size, Primal Scream, Velvets, Underworld, Missy Elliot, Brooklyn Funk Essentials, Stone Roses, Johnathan Richmond. Buzzcocks, Stranglers......Many more.

Laughter
Books
TV/Film
My kid
Friends
Learning/growing (not bodily, that's shrinking!)

Crazy world of ours
Are cats better than dogs?
Pop socks, if I ruled the world they'd be outlawed
Films/books/magazine articles
How money can't buy you love
Self-respect and how to ensure I keep it
Spiders - yuk proves there's no god
How the universe is shaped/began/will end/is pretty
shallow thoughts about new clothes and shoes
How I should give up smoking - again
my kids future
how to get to the euthanasia clinic when I go senile
How I'm gonna pay for the next meal
When am I going to meet you!!

Sitting in front of the computer looking for a date.
Watching TV and shouting at the screen
Writing
Feeling bored that I can't go out
Bemoaning the lack of brave intelligent funny men with all or at least most of their teeth
Trying to make my hyperactive kid GO TO SLEEP!

I'm quite adventurous and will try anything once!

You dare!