So I haven't been on here for a while partly because I took a break from dating last year and also because I'm not really that sold on the whole online dating thing.
Don't get me wrong, I like the idea of plugging a checklist into the computer and Ms. Perfect popping out on the screen but it really doesn't work that way. I've found alot of people have VERY high expectations even before we've gotten to know each other. I think the time up front should really be about getting to know each other and really finding out if we're right for each other without all the pressure and go from there.
So I'm not above taking time to get to know each other before things get physical and just spending time and exploring where we go. And if it turns out we're just meant to be friends so be it.
So bottom line is, I'm more interested in interacting with someone in a more personal setting than text and email. That means talking, meeting for coffee or a bite, perhaps a date, etc.. That way we get to know each other on a real level and not based on fantasies.
Thanks for checking me out.
I'm laid back personality with bouts of intensity. My favorite things are live music, good food, and traveling. I'm very independent but enjoy good company with the right people. I've started working out again after an EXTREMELY long layoff (about a year) and I'm finally getting that old drive back.