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frannikens

57 / F / straight / Single

San Jose, California

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I am Loving, affectionate, and compassionate.

My Self-Summary

I am a kind, generous, and playful professional who is attractive (I've been told-and I do agree), who likes to have fun, and loves people who can laugh at themselves and take life lightly. I love the outdoors and indoors as well. My home is truly my castle. I work hard at keeping in good shape as its been the way I live my life; I love to bike and have a great lake to ride around and enjoy, and aerobic walking, with my ipod on my head, in the fresh air; that's probably my favorite. I see myself as an upbeat, positive, down-to-earth person and always try to surround myself with the same kind of people. I truly care about people and all of my occupational/and personal experiences have been to provide something for others. I don't think there is enough caring in this world and that is unfortunate.

My ideal match is a man who is caring, respectful, affectionate, honest likes to snuggle, and appreciates monogamy. If you chose a more active lifestyle, no need to make contact here. I like someone who likes to experience the wholeness of what I think a good relationship should be. Someone who is down to earth, and head games are not in their vocabulary. (Geez, been there and done that one) Someone who values what life offers, but understands the fragility of life, and one who would be my "biggest fan" and "mine his". Friendship and intimacy are of utmost importance. The 3 "A's" are my rule of thumb-Affection, Appreciation and Admiration. And of course, it must go both ways.

I once read, and it's so fitting, a good relationship is like the north and south pole. They're independent of each other but need one another to "spin." Want to "check it out?" Okay then, let's do it!

What I’m doing with my life

coasting, but it feels more like I'm speeding. Time is weird.
Always working hard but able to kick it and enjoy.

I’m really good at

embracing the moment; making all feel
welcome and positive roll modeling

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

So many: generally speaking music wise jazz, blues, pop, rock n roll (more recent then past-although have my 70's favorites) raggae and on and on. I love to eat; looking at me people are really surprised at how much I eat. I keep it healthy mostly, but am guilty of indulging when the urge calls. I like the kind of books that apply as well to movies. Thrillers, non-fiction, comedies, as well as autobiographies. I admit, I like those good chick flicks as well-well, I am one, ya know.

The six things I could never do without

love, love, love, love, love, love, in all aspects of the sense.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Why so many complicate their lives. If only everyone realized the true value of what truly matters.

On a typical Friday night I am

Laid back, not looking back, ready to have a fun time with a significant other, dear friend, my wonderful family (sis), etc.

You should message me if

you would like to take an adventure