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43 Toronto, Ontario, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:56am
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I keep writing and re-writing this fucking thing. the last time, I took someone's advice and tried to come off more positive. thing is, I'm not positive. I'm not positive about what I want to do with my life, I'm not positive I know what I'm doing most of the time, I'm not even positive I like people.

I am positive I want to meet someone who can make me laugh, someone who kisses really fucking well, someone who either gets me completely, or can't figure me out, and loves me all the more for it, someone who loves music, cats, and shitty tv, someone who is comfortable enough in their own skin to deal with the fact that I don't drink, and can recognize that that doesn't make me any less fun to be around. I'm positive that most of the time, I'm negative. I'm positive that I have the worst temper of anyone I know. I'm positive that I am old. and getting older.

I'm difficult, and hard, and annoying as shit. I'm weird, and angry, and confusing. but I'm also funny, and smart, and kind to animals, sometimes humans. I'm not a 'cat person', but I have a cat who, despite being a total bastard, still knocks me out every day that I know him.

what I am not is a wine-drinking, scandal-watching, 50 shades of grey-reading, katy perry-listening, girls night out-having, 'single lady'. I am severely uncomfortable with sincerity on the first date, and if that first date involves you wearing any form of khaki or pleated pant and a tucked in shirt, I'm sorry, this is probably not going to work out.
What I’m doing with my life
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i take a lot of pictures, i wander around the city most weekends finding bicycles to photograph. i also try to get to a live show every now and again, and will travel to see some of my favourite bands. i love a good rock and roll road trip, and have been to some pretty awesome places in the u.s., i've also become very good at driving long distances alone, this comes from only just starting to drive only five years ago. i will walk for hours to nowhere in particular, and barely notice it. i've run two half-marathons, and hope to tackle more. not sure if i'll ever be ready for a full. i also just recently bought a snare drum and cymbal. i ain't too hot yet, but once i add the bass drum, watch out.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
bugging my cat, taking pictures, walking, and watching the shit out of tv. I'm a pretty good quilter, and once I learn to do more than a scarf, I'll be a kickass knitter. I'm a damn good dancer, too. also, vines. the cat and i are killing it with our vines.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm 5'2" with a slight build. people generally do not notice me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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i really need to start reading more. obviously, i love j.d. salinger, catch-22 has always been a favourite, shoeless joe, early tom wolfe.

i love nashville, harold and maude, goodfellas, king of comedy, taxi driver, the informant!, fantastic mr. fox, way too many movies to list. it is my christmas eve tradition to watch it's a wonderful life and diner. it is also my christmas eve tradition to cry during it's a wonderful life. every. damned. time.

music is big for me. i love the hold steady, lucero, tom waits, the national, justin townes earle, titus andronicus, bob dylan. again, way too many to list. i also like to listen to old time radio shows. if you ever see me out with my camera and my headphones on, i'm probably listening to a great suspense program. i highly recommend these for road trips.

i'd been told i was picky about food most of my life, but really, i just don't happen to love everything. among the things i dislike: mushrooms, sushi, noodles. i like comfort food, one of my favourite meals is a nice roast with yorkshire pudding, mashed potatoes, and gravy. i'm a simpleton.

i watch a lot of tv, so i'll mention the crap i like. i was a huge fan of hoarders and intervention, and am super bummed they're no longer on the air, I love parks and recreation, mad men, thoroughly enjoying american horror story, and i absolutely cannot wait for the next instalment of arrested development, and, even more exciting, the new twin peaks. it'll go with my tattoo.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my iphone and canon.
my cat (even if he's kind of an asshole)
my friends (who mostly live in different cities)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how I can be this shy and still manage to function outside of my apartment. how much I wish my friends lived closer. why aren't the bands I like playing in town. that maybe I shouldn't watch so much tv.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
home, unless it's warm out, then i'm walking outside. if i'm lucky, i'm at a rock show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i never learned to ride a bike, i just take their pictures.
You should message me if
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if you read this and DIDN'T come to the conclusion that I needed *helping*, and that you're just the guy to do it.

if you described yourself as 'looking for that special lady to pamper' and share your life with, I'm very likely not her.

also, if you didn't use the term "lol" in your profile. seriously. if you did, move the fuck along.

basically, I want someone who gets it.