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45 Lake Hopatcong, NJ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 39-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:37pm
Relationship Type
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey there,

After taking time off from the online dating world, I have decided to leap back into it again. During that time I decided to head back to school for my MBA in healthcare management and graduated this past June.

For the past nine years I have been working with kids with mental health and behavioral issues through NJ’s Children’s System of Care. It’s a challenging job, but never dull. Plus I get to make a difference in this world by helping kids and families. I am looking into expanding my career now that I have earned my MBA.

I love outside activites, especially in the warmer months, but still need to get at least a yearly ski fix in during the winter. I also like to challenge myself by running half marathons every now and then. It keeps me disciplined and fit.

Right now I live on a lake and love all the activity it offers, but I love New York City and it is the reason I came to this area from Upstate NY. I love the vibrancy, lights and energy of the city. Particularly, love to stroll on The Highline and then enjoy dinner. I like Mexican, Sushi and Indian food. I try to eat healthy most of the time and prefer wine, (red in the winter, white in the summer), but also don’t mind going to a tapping of a new craft beer.

I'm classy, but can be a quirky and silly girl all rolled up into one. But I also have serious side. I’m outgoing, but on occasion get tongue tied when I can’t find the right words to say. I am attracted to smart guys who have a bit of an edge to them and like to have fun. So if you are intelligent, can hold a thought provoking conversation, with a touch of sarcasm and banter then we will get along great.

Lastly, I have two great kids; a 11 year old son and 5 year old daughter, who truly inspire me every day. If you have kids, that’s great. Attentive, Dads I find very attractive. Hope to hear from you soon.

What I’m doing with my life
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Living it and trying to make every second count.
The first things people usually notice about me
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They are surprised at my age.
My eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like a good girly beach book, but will read books that will teach me new things also. Just read Adultery, Vacationers and Four Hour Work Week. I rarely watch TV. If I do it's a comedy, food network, or HGTV. I love music, classic rock, alternative, pop, dance, jazz, whatever the mood calls for. I believe music says a lot about you as a person.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
Friends and family (Who could?)
A page turning book.
A glass of wine at night.
The change of seasons.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have my kids every other weekend, so the Fridays with my kids we are often relaxing at home. Fortunately, I have a great group of single friends and we are usually together for dinner or drinks on alternatives Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty private. Once I get to know someone then I'm willing to share more.
You should message me if
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want to enjoy a nice date together where we can get to know one another, sharing stories and having lots laughs. I'm also up for grabbing a coffee. Willing to think outside the box to come up with something unique.