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60 • Santa Rosa, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–59
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 4:58am
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
- Likes cats
- English (Fluently)
Frederick of the Playa was supposed to be my ID but is too long & cannot easily edit now.
Seeking woman for sensual encounters and/or friendship. Am easy going w/o long-term expectations. Open to monogamy, polyamory or other unknowns; very possibly romance. I am very grounded & for the first time able to commit, if applicable. Prefer to meet in safe place & see if there is a reason to proceed.
Ending the war on some drugs
Not in any particular order.
Am comfortable w/ who I am. Increasing consciousness, sometimes painfully, but always worth it. Paying attention to cultivate self awareness.
Dance whenever possible, if the music is right, mostly @ home. Riding bicycle as often as possible, do the gym. These are my daily meditation. Work is a full-time job. Garden seasonally. May skip the playa this year...
Doors of Perception
Fear & Loathing Vegas/Campaign Trail
Three Stigmata of Palmer Eldritch
Crime & Punishment
Dr. Strangelove, Blade Runner, Forbidden Planet, et al. Also, American Hustle, Lucy & Her recently.
Not much time for TV (no cable) but include Twilight Zone & Firefly & revisiting Voyager
Grateful Dead to Neil Young to Hank Williams Sr. to Bach to Beethoven
Prime rib, Ahi, asparagus, broccoli, fresh lettuce & hot peppers
(Well, could lose Earth/Sun/Moon if on Interstellar voyage...)
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