Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Once you get past the self-deprecating humor, you will soon learn
that I'm a completely insane and self centered. Nah, that's not
true, either. More humor later. How do you just say that you're an
exciting, successful guy looking to share his life with someone
special? I guess that would do it. I'm the proud dad of an eleven
year old girl, and my ex-wife and I have been amicably separated
for three years and divorced for one year. I'm past the breakup and
excited to meet some good people on here. Friendship is not at all
out of the question. It's welcomed.
I am a Research Scientist and love my work because you never stop
learning new cutting edge methodologies and apply them in this ever
changing field. I am not married to my work, I still find time to
volunteer at my daughter's school, and do other fun stuff with my
daughter like rollerskating, swimming, bike ridding, etc. and
practicing for Friday's spelling quizzes - lol.
What I'm Looking For:
I smile when I think of you. We enjoy doing stuff together, and
have a highly developed sense of sarcasm. I think it's cute when
you snort as you laugh and all the other quirky stuff you do. You
make fun of me whenever you can, I'll provide ample opportunities.
You act younger than you look because I like grownup women who
haven't forgotten what it's like to be a girl.
What I've Learned from Past Relationships:
Flossing is important. Laughing is essential. Imperfection is
perfect. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If
it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't. Don't say
anything you'll regret because you can't take it back. It's better
to understand than to be understood. Unconditional positive regard
instead of unconditional love. Having kids makes you a better
person. The Celtics will tear your heart out, but it's fun to have
something outside yourself to root for together. Strawberries can
actually be an aphrodisiac if served at the right time of night.
This being-single thing isn't going to be nearly as bad as I
thought it might be... Finally, you must be emotionally available
to the other person, which makes you vulnerable, but it's a risk
you have to take to find true love.
My Perception of an Ideal Relationship:
After a 10+ year relationship, I may be rusty about this courting
stuff, but I'm not jaded by divorce. It's even clearer to me that
there's not just one person out there. And even if you get lucky
and meet a winner, there's probably a lot of work and effort ahead,
no matter what. I'm not looking to jump into anything, but I'm a
firm believer in chemistry and wouldn't turn my back on someone
incredible just because of minor bumps and differences that can be
worked out. I feel that a perfect relationship is one in which the
reality is nearby your fantasy. As long as you have a realistic
fantasy, it might just happen.
If you made it this far then I kept you interested :), yeah me give
me a high five :)
Now the funnier stuff:
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to live each day to the fullest.
I believe that it's not the destination but rather the journey in
life that's important. Along the way, maybe you encounter someone
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh, being clumsy, goofy, silly and nutty, using my
toes to find the furniture legs in the dark and forgetting to do
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Italian food, Seafood, Fresh Vegetables, Chinese, Indian/Pakistani,
Thai Vietnamese - I like them all
Movies: Wild at Heart, Pirates of the Caribbean-who
I don't watch much tv, but the shows are Wipe out, The Middle-don't
you just love Sue, the eternal optimist
Big Bang Theory
Books- Dork Diaries, because that's what I read to my daughter and
the stories make me laugh too.
A walk in the woods, by Bill Bryce
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
2) Family, includes (cat&dog)
5) Physical Intimacy(we're sexual creatures after all :) and
6) Read number 5
7) Sense of Humor
8) Think inside the box and limit myself to just 6 things
9) Read Number 6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How relationships work and uhm.... read number 9
What I want to be when I grow young
We Humans consider our self unique, so we've rooted our whole
theory of existence on our uniqueness. "One" is our unit of
"measure" — but what if it's not. What if all our social systems
we've put into place are a mere sketch: "one plus one equals two",
that's all we've learned, but what if... one plus one has never
equaled two — what if there are in fact no numbers and no letters,
what if we've codified our existence to bring it down to human
size, to make it comprehensible, we've created a scale so we can
forget its unfathomable scale. - - Lucy
How to make more desserts on the BBQ.
If everyone Wang Chungs tonight, what would tomorrow be like?
What's my next prank or joke
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Rollerskating, Swimming, Playing board games with my daughter and
Up in the air can change like the wind each Friday
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You feel like it grabbing a cup of coffee
You can be engaging and interesting, yet goofy and playful at the
If I remotely remind you of yourself, and can identify with my
voice, style and intelligence
You're awesome and you know it
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