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freedomindeed

35 F Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 29–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:21pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
More than $1,000,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), Croatian, C++ (Okay), Gujarati (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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My roots sprouted in New Mexico. I have a soft spot for old cars and salt of the earth sensibilities dusted with radical tendencies. Im an amalgam of book smart and street wise. honestly i am a bit skeptical of this medium for dating but nothing ventured...I am a romantic and idealist fed by the profound simplicities of life; at the same time this ain't my first rodeo. I am happy on my own. I also crave to share this crazy life with someone who wants to explore love. I have seen and traveled many roads, I live for precious moments steeped in small wonders and authentic connections. I am fascinated by the duality of being; the sacred and profane. I have a sick sense of humor, if there's a line im the first to cross it. I believe whatever doesn't kill you makes you funnier and hopefully more compassionate. I value honesty and the guts to be exactly who you are no apologies. I also know its important to meet others where they are and respect peoples right to go at their own pace, its all about paying attention and really listening.
I have amazing friends and family that inspire and support me exponentially. I am so grateful for my tribe. I am genuinely satisfied in my life and I want to share it with someone equal parts lover, co-conspirator and friend. Im not in a rush. im interested in meeting people with out expectations and seeing where it goes. Real connection takes time to unfold.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being present with it:) Focusing on bodywork and creating a hand made healing practice. I am blessed to have the profound privilege of making a living doing what I Love. Im Enjoying the journey and embracing each moment as best i can, it's a hell of a balance but well worth the effort. Taking leaps into the unknown and finding the courage to true to my heart..... I recently picked up skateboarding again after 20 yrs, its been a real fuckin long time. Im totally addicted! it would be rad to find someone who wants to go skate! Im slow and shitty at it right now, but not for long!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things :) Making dead things into beautiful things, and somethings outta other things. Anything I'm passionate about, set my mind to, and take time to practice....I can cook the shit outta some shit..jus sayin
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You really cannot predict what other people are thinking or noticing. Our assumptions and ideas about each other, tend to stand in the way of being truly intimate..... i like intimacy way more than my bullshit stories about what other people are thinking.....who am I kidding..my booty..yeah hands down its my booty..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Emerson, non-fiction of all kinds, Rilke, Don Miguel Ruiz, Anaïs Nin, Haruki Murakami is amazing!, Heidegger, Thoreau, Pema Chodron, The Idiot girls Action adventure club ....I like movies that make me cringe and laugh, cry and think. The forbidden zone, Uzumaki, Human Traffic, Jan Švankmajer, Akira Kurosawa, Sympathy for Mr Vengeance, The Last Unicorn, Harold and Maude!!!!! and stuff and things and such. Nina Simone pumps through my blood along side the blues..Ma Rainey ,Lightin Hopkins...,Binary Star, Blockhead, Hot Water Music, Aceyalone, Slayer, Bikini Kill, Cat Stevens, Mike Patton gives me a boner, RV is one of the best songs ever! and Fantomas is just brilliant!, Zion I, Joan Armatrading, , Discovery!!, Too Short, Bowie, KRS-One, Neurosis, Lifesavas, Avail ,Destroyer, Bahamadia, Sinead O'Conner, The Glitch Mob, Gang Starr, Cat Power, Medusa, Hot Chip, Fugazi..

..im gonna eat Pho in Vietnam some day. For now ill go to Pho ahn on Sandy...its so authentic ive wanted to smack a lil Vietnamese kid! The whole family is there, seriously sometimes it feels like your at their house.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Water, Nature, Family, Drag Queens, Paper and Pen, Art, The way the sound of dust on vinyl makes me feel.......Yur Grandma! ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How i can affect change in the world from the tiny everyday things to getting involved with the community. Loving kindness and compassion, how to stand for something without stepping on other human beings. I think a lot about the human condition and how we can step out of the cycles of suffering we seem so drawn to create. I also marvel at our creativity, resilience and grace. I strive to know my inner truth and connect with that wisdom often.... how to embrace and create joy and healing in this mad place. I think a lot...i would sometimes really like that to cease running rampant.....i do my best to meditate on a regular basis....oh how the ego loves ricockulouse babble...Doug Stanhope has a great bit on that in his stand up "no refunds"..He reminds me a bit of my favorite prophet and comedian Bill Hicks..oh my gawd!? see how the mind just goes!! Ha ha ha
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing what ever i want to be doing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wanna hump David Attenborough,...preferably 30 yrs ago but i would totally do him now... and i sometimes imagine what it would have been like to shoot/blow up shit with Hunter S. Thompson....

P.S. Tell people they are lovely!! tell them in the grocery stores, tell them on the sidewalk, tell perfect strangers , tell them anywhere,.. its beautiful for everyone involved:)

P.P.S. Goodbye Sir David, Thanks for everything, R.I.P.
You should message me if
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Your feelin it.... You can cook the shit outta some shit too..You value and appreciate your self and are surrounded with what you love, people who inspire you and habits that support your well being . If you can see beauty in a vast array of expression you are so invited! If your ridiculous, curious and compassionate we will probably get on great. if your funny in a real fucked up way; you are totally gettin laid!.
Seriously though if your that person in the mosh pit who sees someone fall and helps them up. If You appreciate Intelligence , Confidence and Sweetness cause you rock that shit too. It would also be rad if you can sit in the silence of your own being and enjoy the company you keep....even if for just a moment at a time....

Boom! this just happened!!...

"The very purpose of religion is to control yourself, not to criticize others. Rather, we must criticize ourselves. How much am I doing about my anger? About my attachment, about my hatred, about my pride, my jealousy? These are the things which we must check in daily life."

H.H. Dalai Lama