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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-47
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:41am
Relationship Type
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Croatian, C++ (Somewhat), Gujarati (Fluently)
My self-summary
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My roots sprouted in New Mexico. Ive got a soft spot for old cars and salt of the earth sensibilities dusted with radical expressions of compassion and common sense...I am an amalgam of book smart and street wise. I lean toward romantic idealism and thrive on the profound simplicities of life; at the same time this ain't my first rodeo. Im direct and communicative . Its highly unlikely anyone has to guess what im thinking or where i stand on anything thats of importance to me. Im happily independent and open to sharing this crazy life with someone who wants to explore love. I have seen and traveled many roads.I live for precious moments steeped in small wonders and authentic connections. I am fascinated by the duality of being; the sacred and profane. I have a sick sense of humor, if there's a line im the first to cross it. I believe whatever doesn't kill you makes you funnier and hopefully more compassionate. I value honesty and the guts to be exactly who you are no apologies. I also know its important to meet others where they are and respect peoples right to go at their own pace, its all about paying attention and really listening.
I have amazing friends and family that inspire and support me. I am so grateful for my tribe. I am genuinely satisfied in my life and I am interested in someone who is open and ready for a loving relationship . Someone excited about discovering the depths of the rabbit hole in them selves and another. A man equal parts lover, co-conspirator and friend. Im stoked for the amazing people who embrace non monogamy ..and im totally not lookin for that. Im also not in a rush or looking for a just "add water" relationship. Im most comfortable meeting with out expectations and seeing where it goes. Lasting connection takes time to unfold.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being present with it:) Focusing on bodywork and creating a hand made healing practice. I am blessed to have the profound privilege of making a living doing what I Love. Im Enjoying the journey and embracing each moment as best i can, it's a hell of a balance but well worth the effort. Taking leaps into the unknown and finding the courage to be true to my heart..... I recently picked up skateboarding after 20 yrs, its been a real fuckin long time!! (I know i know..such. a potty mouth. ).. it would be rad to find someone who wants to go skate! Im slow and shitty at it right now, but im cool with push push cruz, im not tryin to be Elissa Steamer ...aaand if ur not familiar look her up, Welcome to Hell is one of my favorites.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things :)Being a grown up and having more fun than ive ever had. Making dead things into beautiful things, and somethings outta other things. Anything I'm passionate about, set my mind to, and take time to practice....I can cook the shit outta some shit..
The first things people usually notice about me
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You really cannot predict what other people are thinking or noticing. Our assumptions and ideas about each other, tend to stand in the way of being truly intimate..... i like intimacy way more than my bullshit stories about what other people are thinking.....Who am I kidding!?..My Booty..yeah hands down its more then likely my booty..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Emerson, non-fiction of all kinds, Rilke, Don Miguel Ruiz, Anaïs Nin, Haruki Murakami is amazing!, Heidegger, Thoreau, Pema Chodron, The Idiot girls Action adventure club ....I like movies that make me cringe and laugh, cry and think. The forbidden zone, Uzumaki, Human Traffic, Jan Švankmajer, Akira Kurosawa, Sympathy for Mr Vengeance, The Last Unicorn, Harold and Maude!!!!! and stuff and things and such. Nina Simone pumps through my blood along side the blues..Ma Rainey ,Lightin Hopkins...,Binary Star, Blockhead, Hot Water Music, Aceyalone, Slayer, Bikini Kill, Cat Stevens, Mike Patton gives me a boner, RV is one of the best songs ever! and Fantomas is just brilliant!, Zion I, Joan Armatrading, , Discovery!!, Too Short, Bowie, KRS-One, Neurosis, Lifesavas, Avail ,Destroyer, Bahamadia, Sinead O'Conner, The Glitch Mob, Gang Starr, Cat Power, Medusa, Hot Chip, Fugazi..

"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom". ....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Water, Nature, Family, Drag Queens, Paper and Pen, Art, The way the sound of dust on vinyl makes me feel.......Yur Grandma! ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How i can affect change in the world from the tiny everyday things to getting involved with the community. Loving kindness and compassion, how to stand for something without stepping on other human beings. I think a lot about the human condition and how we can step out of the cycles of suffering we seem so drawn to create. I also marvel at our creativity, resilience and grace. I strive to know my inner truth and connect with that wisdom often.... how to embrace and create joy and healing in this mad place. I think a lot...i would sometimes really like that to cease running rampant.....i do my best to meditate on a regular basis....oh how the ego loves ricockulouse babble...Doug Stanhope has a great bit on that in his stand up "no refunds"..He reminds me a bit of my favorite prophet and comedian Bill Hicks..oh my gawd!? see how the mind just goes!! Ha ha ha
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing what ever i want to be doing
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wanna hump David Attenborough,...preferably 30 yrs ago but i would totally do him now... and i sometimes imagine what it would have been like to shoot/blow up shit with Hunter S. Thompson....

P.S. Tell people they are lovely!! tell them in the grocery stores, tell them on the sidewalk, tell perfect strangers , tell them anywhere,.. its beautiful for everyone involved:)
You should message me if
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Your feelin it and can get past my terrible grammar and appreciate creative spelling ;) im all hooked up w phonics yo!
Im a feminist like fuck and ill send you a message first no problem, theres also nothing sexier then a man who goes after what he wants... (theres A shortage of you here in passive portland? !)
I very much appreciate sincere inquiry's and introductions, class and manners will get you far. I highly value emotional intelligence and exponentially dig men who have close friends that are women. Everyone needs a good home gurl.
If you can cook the shit outta some shit . rad!. If You spend extended amounts of time OFF your "smart"phone and could give a shit about social media, your soo cool!! Id like to meet a man who surrounds himself with what nurtures him and people who inspire and add to his joy. . If you can see beauty in a vast array of expression you are so invited! If your ridiculous, curious and compassionate we will probably get on great. If your funny in a real fucked up way; you are totally gettin laid!.
Seriously though if your that person in the mosh pit who sees someone fall and helps them up. If You strive to be a positive force in this short life your sooo Hott. If Intelligence , Confidence and Sweetness turn you on . Id like to connect with someone who can sit in the silence of your own being and enjoy the company they keep....even for just moments at a time....

Boom! this just happened!!...

"The very purpose of religion is to control yourself, not to criticize others. Rather, we must criticize ourselves. How much am I doing about my anger? About my attachment, about my hatred, about my pride, my jealousy? These are the things which we must check in daily life."

H.H. Dalai Lama