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59 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 42–64
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jun 23
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
MERE SUGGESTIONS for OK Cupid-goers (NOTE: These apply to both men AND women!)

ps - I really haven't had any majorly bad experiences - this is just for fun.


- If you're over-fifty-ish and your picture shows you with your parents at your college graduation ceremony and it's in black and might want to post a more recent photo. It's all going to come out in the wash anyway - for example if you arrive at the first lunch and your date says "Is your daughter/son going to be here soon?"

- If you don't post a photo, we assume you're one of two things: male or wanted for serial murder. Or both.

- If you made out the ABOUT section and when it asked what sex you were, you wanted to put "prefer not to say" you MIGHT consider being a little more open.



- "MESSAGE ME SOON!! I want to have kids RIGHT AWAY!!!"

- "JUST GOT OUT JAIL - let's have some FUN!!!"

- "WHAT is WRONG with being NEEDY anyway!!!??"

- if your profile says: "if you don't like ALL of these you're NOT for me! cats, dogs, birds, unicorns, hobbits, kayaking, camping, space exploration, marathons, squash (both the game and the vegetable), weight-lifting, cranberry sauce, kumquats, sky-diving, backgammon (contact me for the complete list)" you might be a bit inflexible.

- if you're definition of "financially secure" means "has two Mercedes, 3 Harleys, houses in BC, California and France and owns an island in the Mediterranean and part of Ohio" you might want to warn us normal guys.

- if "I love to try new things" really means "I like to do the same things as I have for 30 years and you'll have to twist my arm to the breaking point to try anything different" you might want to (ahem) relax a bit. (Not bitter)

- if "I live life to the fullest, and find joy in everything I do!" really means "I love to complain about my job, my ex., my kids, the weather, and I never smile" then you might want to warn us. (Ok that one WAS a little bitter)

Hope you smiled at least once while reading this!

Summarize myself. Love going to great concerts, trying out new things, plays and interesting, serious or just popcorn-roller-coaster-ride movies. I'm obsessed with trying new restaurants. Even TV can be fun with someone you like being with.

I think I'm nice, funny (if you like slightly twisted/edgy humour), look good for my age (they say). I try to be considerate and HONEST. Some say too honest at times, but it beats the alternative!

Looking for someone who likes free-ranging conversation, is a real person with only small carry-on baggage, or a record of murdering boyfriends preferred. Or murdering anyone...ok maybe just send me a copy of your criminal record (just kidding).

Someone not uptight, but no party animals/bar stars either please. Been there blah blah...

I'm a taller caucasian men with an average build - I guess if you want a guy with a six-pack who goes to the gym 4 hours a day, maybe I'm not for you, but I work out several times a week and eat a healthy diet.

FAMILY: No kids but family is everything and I'm close to mine.

I'm not desperate, needy or co-dependent but would love to meet someone to have fun with, and if romance blooms great! If that sounds about right, let's chat!

Cheers and peace

ps - did I mention I live in a germ-free bubble? Ooops sorry. (Kidding - please see the part above about "slightly twisted/edgy humour")
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning, learning, learning, progressing, building my company but trying to do it and still love my work and in the process help other people, not be stressed, be outdoors, active and healthy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
creativity, problem-solving, music, making a silk purse out of a sow's ear (which would be a pretty gross purse when you think about it), thinking out of the box, smashing and burning the box, feeling bad you lost your temper on the box, spontaneity, making popcorn, juggling, balancing work and play, conversing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tall? Good smile, funny, my back (if they're behind me).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Fiction, biographies, Kazuo Ishiguru, classics like The Great Gatsby, Catcher in the Rye, A Cure for Everything, music business books (for work), books on the Beatles ("You Never Give me Your Money" and the Coleman Lennon bio).

Movies: interesting and different or just fun and entertaining as long as they aren't brainless, classics, foreign, noir.

Music: R&B ex. Motown, Philly soul, Marvin Gaye, lots of classical music, great pop like the Beatles, Kinks, Stones, new wave era stuff like Police, XTC, Blondie....LOTS OF NEW MUSIC

Food - GREAT restaurants, new flavours constantly, east indian, Ulla in Victoria, Thai, seafood, great pizza but haven't found one in Victoria yet!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ummmm air, food, music, friends, learning new things, GREAT food, books...that's seven things right?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Creativity, the world, learning new things, science, the brain, why one of my cats doesn't like me (the other one loves me tho), how creative minds work, how I can become a super hero someday with a cape maybe, food, finding new and exciting music, finding cat food on sale.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Finding cat food on sale. Kidding (ummmm ya...). I have a job I love (music) so it doesn't matter if I'm being social with friends and/or working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you're willing to admit it then is it private?...ooh I hate paradoxes!! Ummmm well I was a nerd in school BEFORE it was cool to be a nerd and I got teased and bullied a bit, until I joined a band and then I suddenly became cool. But I've always retained my nerd status and never really cared.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You see something in the above that piques your interest, like conversation and doing new things, and are interested in seeing if romance develops, or just exchanging recipes for fish.