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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:24am
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am simple, enjoy the little things in life. I am not wound up in material things (many things i own are from the thrift store or second had). If it has some use to me I will hold onto it. I will always take/eat leftovers, I don't like to waste food unless it's going bad. I live a thrifty lifestyle for rewards down the road, (some people judge me for these that right? should I care if they do?) If we have "open hearts and open minds" of what we bring to the table
I don't want to change for anyone. I want to you like me for me and for all I am. I am a catch! I am a relationship guy, I want that special connection that many people around me have but it can't be forced.
I am a little quiet and shy at first, but isn't that natural in this kind of forum?

I want to true to myself. I have so much to offer. All I want is that real honest personal connection. I am a reflector a little apprehensive and thoughtful before I speak.
I am drawn to those who wish to be active and have a sense of adventure. It is great to have many common interests in a relationship and also be respectful of the differences we have. I want to be with those who are very open minded. I enjoy the simple things in life. I am sometimes more comfortable hang in enjoying the company of one or a small group of people rather than going out, but enjoy that balance. Communication is the key in any relationship.
I want a “partner in crime” to go on all sorts of adventures with, both large and small, not worrying about impressing you with anything except me being me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
A variety of things....looking for a shift in work opps.....doing what I enjoy.....affecting people positively.....bringing new challenges and experience to the world.....traveling.....enjoying myself...... Recently looking into other community based positions blending recreation, education, youth development, community service, etc together,
I volunteer doing service projects and working with kids.
Having outdoor adventures...
Ask me!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a well rounded person. I do anything and everything sports or outdoor related. I just continue to try new things. I am not really an “expert” at anything.

here's a random list.....
skiing, teaching snowboarding, guiding rafts, cooking without recipes, grilling, cat napping, bargain hunting, volunteering, playing in the snow, reading maps, mural panting, paddling, cuddling, giving massages, Frisbee, pint glass collecting from bars, setting up a tent, sharpening skis, eating cheese, smiling, playing with kids, chipping golf balls, playing and coaching lacrosse, surfing my boat, one handed clapping, starting a fire, pumping gas, growing facial stubble, running around barefoot, putting on flip flops, misplacing glasses, mixing lemonade, first aid, rolling my tongue, packing for a trip, maneuvering through white water, helping others, creating bucket lists....what else....just ask...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm short. It is what it is, Hope you can handle it. I look younger than I am, so I support the trimmed bearded look,
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - murder mysteries, adventure stories, how to, travel, good variety......more engaged with books on tape/cd as an auditory learner.

Movies - Generally a movie buff, action, comedy, chick flicks, dramas, horror, cartoons, etc.

Shows - I have gotten into the binge watching crazy. I don't pay that much attention to new shows coming out but then later get hooked on them, then need to get caught up on multiple seasons at a time......How I Met Your Mother, Dexter, the 4400, The Firm, Parenthood, Law and Order SVU, the Office, Royal Pains, Psych......what else can you get me hooked to?

Music - I listen to a variety of stuff. I have many mixes, but recently I like more acoustical, live, and covers performances.
Acoustical Sunrise on the radio is excellent!

Food - I am not picky, willing to try anything!
I will eat all kind of cuisines...cheese and sometimes bacon makes everything better
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my car
a backpack
outdoor toys (paddle, snowboard, pfd, etc)
warm hat

being near water or mountains

mmm, I can't count apparently
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the future
next travel destination, vacation, road trips
sports and recreation, things I want to try
job opportunities
where I could relocate to
fun activities I can do with mentees/youth
young people in my life, friends kiddos
gas prices
how to save pennies for bigger things
making things better, always wanting to improve myself
expanding the social circle

What the word "dating" infers. I just want to simply find a connection and go from there too much pressure with dating?

"Ladies… real men do exist; there aren’t many of us, but we’re survivors and will be around for a while. Come find us."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Never a typical Friday night.....out and about, going on a road trip, laying low and relaxing, I just go with the flow, I'm up for suggestions !
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am in an interesting place right now…..I have a lifestyle that is very flexible and easygoing, with few responsibilities, while many of my friends are married, recently bought houses and have kids, this is not where I am.....I would like to have it at some point
You should message me if
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You appreciate the simple things in life
We have some common interests
You are open minded and try new things
You have respect for others interests
You realize that first impressions that are made right off the bat could very well be completely different from another interaction in a different environment or settings
You like to travel
You like to keep active
You like to explore and have adventures
You know what you want out of life, want to make a real connection
You want to get to know someone real

Not afraid of putting yourself out there