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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:56pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
How does this whole thing work? We want to get to know each other and be "friends first" because past relationships this method has worked, but is that realistic with on-line?....there is an obvious attraction, don't want to play games, but don't want to be too bold....its a strange dynamic....
I want to true to myself. I have so much to offer. All I want is that real honest personal connection. I am a natural listener and reflector. A little apprehensive and thoughtful before I speak.
I am drawn to those who wish to be active and have a sense of adventure. It is great to have many common interests in a relationship and also be respectful of the differences we have. I want to be with those who are very open minded. I enjoy the simple things in life. I am sometimes more comfortable hang in enjoying the company of one or a small group of people rather than going out, but enjoy that balance. Communication is the key in any relationship. I don’t mind long distance relationship if it is right, (yes there is an extent) but of course an in person. My end goal is not to just “having a good time”. I appreciate what many of my coupled, married and parent friends have, not right away….. but lets be honest, straightforward, and transparent. What’s wrong with that? I've been hurt, but there is no reason to dwell on that, just stick to my values and it will work out.
I want a “partner in crime” to go on all sorts of adventures with, not worrying about impressing you with anything except me being me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a therapeutic mentor and group leader working with youth, and job searching in higher ed (student affairs) . Recently looking into other community based positions blending recreation, education, youth development, community service, etc together,
I volunteer doing service projects and working with kids. I have coached lacrosse and lead outdoor trips, hiking backpacking, kayaking, canoeing, rock climbing, skiing/snowboarding and white water rafting. In between all this I try to travel, visit friends, go on road trips, have adventures, explore new places, hanging out, and having fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a well rounded person. I do anything and everything sports or outdoor related. I just continue to try new things. I am not really an “expert” at anything.

here's a random list.....
skiing, teaching snowboarding, guiding rafts, cooking without recipes, grilling, cat napping, bargain hunting, volunteering, playing in the snow, reading maps, mural panting, paddling, cuddling, giving massages, Frisbee, pint glass collecting from bars, setting up a tent, sharpening skis, eating cheese, smiling, playing with kids, chipping golf balls, playing and coaching lacrosse, surfing my boat, one handed clapping, starting a fire, pumping gas, growing facial stubble, running around barefoot, putting on flip flops, misplacing glasses, mixing lemonade, first aid, rolling my tongue, packing for a trip, maneuvering through white water, helping others, creating bucket lists....what else....just ask...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm short. I can handle it if you can. It is what it is. There are some advantages. Recently I have been supporting some facial hair as I do get accused of being a teenager....looking much younger than I actually am
I may also be a little quiet and reserved at first but not for long
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - text books, murder mysteries, adventure stories, how to, travel, good variety......there are plenty to chose from

Movies - Generally a movie buff, action, comedy, chick flicks, dramas, horror, cartoons, etc.

Shows - I don't pay that much attention to new shows coming out but then later get hooked on them, then need to get caught up on multiple seasons at a time......How I Met Your Mother, Dexter, the 4400, The Firm, Parenthood, Law and Order SVU, the Office, Royal Pains, Psych......what else can you get me hooked to?

Music - I listen to a variety of stuff. I have many mixes, but recently I like more acoustical, live, and covers performances.
Acoustical Sunrise on the radio is excellent!

Food - I enjoy eating. When I was younger no one could understand how much I could put away. I will try almost anything at least once, I am not a picky eater at all. tastes change. I am open minded.
I will eat all kind of cuisines, crunchy, spicy, melty, savory, sweet, variety of flavors, whatever, typically do not follow receipts, trial and error :)
cheese and sometimes bacon makes everything better
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a car
outdoor toys (paddle, snowboard, pfd, etc)
flip flops
warm hat
being near water or mountains

mmm, I can't count apparently
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the future
next travel destination, vacation, road trips
sports and recreation, things I want to try
job opportunities
where I could relocate to
fun activities I can do with mentees/youth
young people in my life, friends kiddos
gas prices
how to save pennies for bigger things
making things better, always wanting to improve myself
expanding the social circle

What the word "dating" infers. I just want to simply find a connection and go from there too much pressure with dating?

"Ladies… real men do exist; there aren’t many of us, but we’re survivors and will be around for a while. Come find us."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Never a typical Friday night.....
.......come join in on the fun!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am in an interesting place right now…..I have a lifestyle that is very flexible and easygoing, with few responsibilities, while many of my friends are married, recently bought houses and have kids, this is not where I am.....I would like to have in many respects, at some point, but now I am in that transitional adventurous stage....joint me won't you!
My successful relationships have all sparked from friendships, which is a little challenging through this process. It would be great if we could chat and hang out in a couple of different situations instead of deciding in the first 5 minutes that nothing will spark, I understand that I am not the best as first impressions, and meeting in different situations makes me more comfortable, but I may follow the same procedure. I have shown a lot of interest and been informed that I was coming on too strong, another time I was being quiet and reserved in response, and that person thought I was not into them when I was, so whatever happens in this “game” (which I really prefer not to play at this point) does not seem like I get it quite right. It was much easier in the college setting for example.

I am a simple person not looking to impress anyone with what have but with my interests and being true to who I am. I know I have a lot to offer and know what I want. Someone who is active, likes kids, enjoys various adventures, enjoys the simple things in life, is passionate about something, looking to improve themselves, independent open minded to trying new things and respectful of others interests and just someone that I can be comfortable with. Is that too much?

No one cares how they meet but just that they do.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You appreciate the simple things in life
We have some common interests
You are open minded and try new things
You have respect for others interests
you realize that first impressions that are made right off the bat could very well be completely different from another interaction in a different environment or settings
You like to travel
You like to keep active
You like to explore and have adventures
You know what you want out of life, want to make a real connection
You want to get to know someone real

Not afraid of putting yourself out there