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39 San Tan Valley, AZ Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:01pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Of all the titles I've held in my life, the greatest by far is Dad! I live for the days that I get to spend with my kids!
It's easy to fill one's life with things that don't matter, but what I really hope to achieve is a life full of deep meaningful relationships. I cannot imagine being eighty years old and looking back on my life and wishing I had shared, experienced, or loved less. Loving someone has never changed my feelings for someone else, and has never kept me from falling in love with someone new. I count those among life's most beautiful and fulfilling moments, and I could never deny them to those I love. That said, I am not here looking to play games or help someone cheat. What I offer instead is an open mind and an open heart. For those who insist on puting everything into neat little catagories that means I'm Polyamorous.

I'm interested in science, art, history, politics, scocial issues, and personal perspectives. I like to make up my own mind about things rather than accept what is presented to me, so some of my opinions don't fit into the nice neat little boxes that come with these sites. I can disagree with you completely about any matter under the sun and not lose respect for you when I do it. I love to weigh the pros and cons of religon and politics, science and society, all without being nasty and disrespectfull about it.

I hope to find great connections that both inspire and empower. I'll be one of those people in your life who make you feel like you will have some seriously epic stories one day to tell about our adventures even when we are just going to the grocery store. I am going to have as much fun along the way as possible. If you want to have fun too, without the pressure of having to be perfect, send me a message and we'll go have a great time! If something develops from it, GREAT! If not then we still had a blast! I haven't met the person yet that doesn't have room in their life for another friend ... Just sayin'

I love to play pencil and paper RPGs, but not MMORPGs. I love science fiction movies and books, as well as action adventure, comedy, superheros, and psycological thrillers. I have a pretty darn good imagination, good for entertaing all ages.
Camping, backpacking, hiking, fishing, and hunting are all favorite pastimes, so if you never want to go outside, we may not match.
I am a tactlie person, which means that I tend to give and recieve affection in a physical manner. Don't worry though, I'm not going to maul you. ;-) (unless you want me to)
I'm a good friend, loyalty is very important to me. If you're having some kind of crisis, I'll drop everything to help you, even if it means just being there for comfort. (I'm also there for the fun stuff)

It is very important to me to be on time. I'd rather be an hour early than one minute late.
There's plenty more to know, but why spoil the fun of meeting?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I get to spend a few days every now and then just being a dad and I love it! I wish I could have every day with my kids. The rest of my time is spent between work and sleep and sometimes even playtime. I am rediscovering things that I have long enjoyed, and learning new things along the way. I love trying new foods, and meeting new people! If I were able to spend my lifetime doing anything I wanted I would be traveling the globe with my kids, (and if you're very lucky, maybe you), meeting people and tasting new exciting foods!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
When you're having a really crappy day, and you just need sombody to talk to, I'm the guy that you want to talk to. When you're having a really awesome day and and you want to celebrate it with someone, I'm the guy you want to talk to. When you want to do nothing but watch rented movies from your bed all day, I'm the guy that you want next to you with my arms wrapped around you.
I have other talents; I like to build, and refinish furniture and other wood working projects. While I'm not quite lucky enough to do it often, I do a pretty good job. I've been told I'm a great teacher too, but it's gotta be something I'm passionate about.
Oh, and I'm great with kids. As the oldest of 8 children and a father of 4, you could say that I have some practice. ....... And THAT is all the bragging I can stand to do! ... Any other talents you'll have to discover the fun way! ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Never really been told the answer to this one ... Whatever it is I hope it's a good thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Basicly anything that takes me away from reality and puts me some place else for a while is the perfect entertainment for me. Well actually perfect probably involves a certain amount of imagination on your part, but I digress. Fantasy, Science fiction, or just a great story that I can get lost in are tops in my book. so examples : Fire Fly
Terra Nova
The Dresden series by Jim Butcher
Anything written and directed by Joss Whedon
even stuff like The Tenth Kingdom, made for kids but still works for me.
I like spy stories too, books or movies you name it. James Bond and Jason Bourne are just awesome!
When it comes to music I like 80's rock, country, Texas red dirt, Sinatra, Elvis, classical, pretty much everything except rap and hip hop.
Food is one of my favorite adventures. I like to try new things. Just recently tried some sushi for the first time. I discovered that while I like some of the rolls, the texture of raw fish does not agree with me. But it was fun trying something new and exciting!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family - this includes close friends
the internet - The greatest rescource for information and entertainment ever invented!
Sex- self explanitory
learning new things- from cultures, ideas, and foods the world over
Movies- gotta love that captivating flickering screen!
That's 5 I know, but I'm a rebel like that ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I like thinking about ways to makes things work better, be more energy efficient, or produce more. I really would love to find a way to help people be more independant and self sufficient. For example, changing the farming industry to be localized and more productive. Or solar cell window tint that could be used on highrise buildings to cut their energy costs. I'm full of ideas like these, but I just haven't figured out how to make any of them happen.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually working. Sometimes I spend time with my children and do all the cool dad stuff I miss out on during the rest of the time. But working the midnight shift has it's advantages, I get all day long to play with my friends and have a good time!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You're asking for a private confession in a public forum? How about you spend a little time getting to know me, and you can ask anything you want to know. *please note that I do not pay a premium on this site, this means I can't see quick match data, so instead of selecting me as a quick match, please just send me a message. Thank you*
You should message me if
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You are interested in discussing polamory, or poly reated issues. If you are interested in going out and having a good time. If you like a guy with a little more to hold. If you are open minded and willing to consider there may be other possibilities to every situation. If you are actually serious about wanting a nice guy with a good heart. If you have an interest in real conversation. Or if you just need someone to join you on a bike ride, or flying a kite, or some other random adventure. You get the idea. ;-) .... If you made it all the way here, then a few keystokes may be all it takes to start something wonderful ...... Come on .... you know you want to ;-)