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geeky, amorous, and fun-loving

My self-summary Propose an edit

I'm a friendly, a sci-fi/fantasy-geek and an admin assistant.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Hanging with my geek buddies, either every Saturday at various club meeetups or every Tuesday at 6 pm at Crepeville (18th & L St.) downtown for boardgame/cardgame night. My various geek interests/meetups can be found here: www.sacramentogeeks.com or www.fantasticfrontiers.com; I'm the webmaster of those sites. Plus I've been hanging out a bit more with the Singles Adventures Meetup lately, it's a nice group. Most of the meetups involved DVD viewing or house party or just hanging out at a restaurant or someone's place.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

I'm a great admin: I love helping people and working with people, I'm good with computers and software (or at least better than most of my co-workers which is all that's required to assist them), good at problem solving and multi-tasking on the job.

I'm good at getting geeks together to share common interests and find fun stuff to do.

I've been told that I'm a good lover, but of course that's going to depend on compatibility etc.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I don't think I make a good first impression just in terms of looks. I'm only 4'11 and overweight (I could stand to lose maybe 30 pounds -- I'm working on it), and I'm brunette, usually with thick short hair, and wear glasses. But I have a nice face and my cleveage gets compliments sometimes, and my brown hair is at least thick and nice. Some people think a girl in glasses is cute. :) But once people get to know me, they realize I'm friendly, fun, intelligent and loving.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Movies: Serenity, Princess Bride, Bicentennial Man, Star Wars, 40-Year-Old Virgin, Dude Where's My Car, Back to the Future, The Secretary.

TV: Dexter, Firefly, Buffy, Angel, Pushing Daisies, Family Guy, Heroes, Lost, Life, Star Trek, Bones.

Musicals: Wicked, Dr. Horrible's Singalong Blog, Into the Woods, Les Mis, Sweeny Todd, Prates of Penzance.

Books: Douglas Adams, Terry Pratchett, Heinlein. These days I read blogs and comics and online content too much and not enough books, but I used to read a variety of sci-fi. Fave titles include Handmaiden's Tale, Stranger in a Strange Land. Also enjoyed McCaffrey's Dragon Riders of Pern series, and I actually understood and ENJOYED studying Shakespeare in high school. :P

As you might notice, I tend to like anything thing with a wicked sense of humor especially set in a sci-fi or fantasy setting. Things with great, developing characters whom you want to follow, intelligent writing and sharp wit.

Music: '80s rock and pop, classic rock, modern adult alternative (empathasis on the "alternative" meaning I like some obscure songs), but also humorous stuff: Weird Al and Warp 11 are faves. Locally I like The Kimberly Trip, Ricky Berger and the aforementioned Warp 11. I find angsty ballads by singers with gorgeous voices to be a guilty pleasure as well; another guilty pleasure is ELO.

Food: my weakness is chocolate, though lately I've been cutting it out for my diet. I also really like sushi, pizza, Boba teas.

Games: Carcassone, Qwirkle, Quillotine, Ingenious, RummyKub, Fluxx, and TransAmerica.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

ok other than the obvious (air, food, etc.), I must have friends in my life, I love having a computer with internet access, and I don't think I could happily go forever without chocolate, though I'm proud of myself for resisting lately. :P I also need good compatiable companionship -- I'd be miserable alone on an deserted island. I'd say I also need sci-fi/fantasy content (movies/TV) but I can get that on the aforementioned computer. :) Ok, so it's not a clean and neat list of six, deal with it.

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

I consider myself a fairly philosophical person. Being polyamorous (even if I'm not currently "practicing" it), I like to ponder the nature of love, friendship, sex, emotions, etc. I like to look these things objectively and logically. I am atheist, but I try not to think about that too much: the idea of just ceasing to exist after death, though I really feel it to be the true case, is scary. So I try to really enjoy life and make the best of it while I can.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

home watching TV or just kicking back. Friday nights are usually a decompression day for me. I'm more likely to be going out Tuesdays, Wedsnesday, Saturdays and Sundays. On those days I'm hanging with my current boyfriend or going to geek meetups.

Update: I've recently begun to appreciate going out on a Friday, even if it's just to dinner, because it makes the weekend feel longer!

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

As I mentioned, I'm polyamorous (update: due to a current relationship, I'm not currently practicing polyamory. While it's still something I believe in, I'm refraining out of respect to my current non-poly partner who means a lot to me). My parents and co-workers don't know. If you don't know what polyamory is, do some google/wiki searching. Or ask me. Though some in the poly community do also swing, don't assume it's the same thing as swinging. It's not. Literally, it means "many loves". Nor is it polygamy. Nor is it the same for everyone. But it's great to live life without petty jealousies.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You feel you have things in common with me and want to make new friends.

If you want to learn more about sacgeeks.com or sacramentogeeks.com

You're not afraid of enjoying the geeky side of life.

Your idea of fun includes hanging out with friends watching sci-fi shows.

You are intelligent and literate. Please don't message me if your sentences look like this:

THIS IS A ESAMPLE...of tEH kind of rithting THAT DRIVES ME CRAZY...IF U DONT NOW HOW TO SPELL OR USE PERIODS OR SHIT OR YOU CUSS EVERYONE OTHER FUCKING WORD OR YOUR CAPS LOCK IS ALWAYS STUCK... AND YOUR RIGHTING loox like this in result plz dont bother ok!!!!111!!!

:P

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frellingsteph: 654 questions

Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn't matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
$30,000-$40,000
Kids
Likes children, but doesn't want any
Pets
N/A
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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