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21 Winston-Salem, NC Genderqueer, Non-binary, Transgender

Genderqueer, Non-binary, Transgender

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 12:18pm
Middle Eastern, White
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body type
Mostly vegan
Not at all
Atheism, and very serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You kids like trains?

They/them pronouns. Tr(A)narchy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a standup comedian, I guess. I also play accordion. Ask me about my weird band.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... letting dogs sit on me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
How about you just get six? Okay? Okay.

Books: Joey Pigza series, American Gods, Persepolis, The World According To Garp, A Good Man Is Hard To Find, When You Are Engulfed In Flames.

Movies: Wet Hot American Summer, A Mighty Wind, The Royal Tenenbaums, Clerks, The Room, Pulp Fiction.

Shows: Mr. Show, Totally Biased with W. Kamau Bell, The IT Crowd, Regular Show, RuPaul's Drag Race, King of the Hill.

Music: Kate Bush, Andrew Jackson Jihad, They Might Be Giants, Ramshackle Glory, Talking Heads, Speaker For The Dead.

Food: I'll eat anything, as long as it's vegan (or vegetarian and found in the dumpster).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm pretty good at doing without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... oppression.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If your Friday night counts as typical, you're probably not as fun as you think you are.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an acquired taste.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... you want to feed me, take me to shows, bring me contra dancing, and/or teach me how to play the accordion better.

... you're a(n): feminist, atheist, queer, punk, radical, socialist, anarchist, clinic defender, anti-Zionist Jew, dumpster diver, vegan, straightXedge kid, artist, reader, writer, thinker, listener. Any combination of the above would be desirable. Libertarians need not apply. Just move it along.

Also, if you want to book me on a show. I'm not above basements.