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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 29-47
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:38pm
Heteroflexible, Sapiosexual
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Russian (Somewhat), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
born and raised in Paris. been living 5 years in Senegal. moved to DC end 2006 and to New York end 2012. blunt. honest. straightforward. super curious. sapiosexual. feminist. free. GGG. love to learn and share. nerdy. sweetly kinky. value real connections over superficial stuff. value relational and rational intelligence. value honesty. love intensity. have a weakness for smart ass, playful partner in crime...
"I sleep hard but I dream harder!" - Maria Bamford
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
try to save the planet kind of work. workaholic and lifeaholic at the same time. sex positive AND love positive and there is definitely no point thinking they are mutually exclusive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
not having any sense of direction
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my accent and right the second after my origin
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
oysters. sea creatures. whiskey neat. great red wines. brussel sprouts (the way my grand mother was cooking them). croque monsieur et madame. yakitori (japanese skewers). edaname. and ile flottante. bacooooooonnnnnnn

belle du seigneur ('her lover' in english version) from albert cohen. houellebecq. georges bataille. buckowski. kafka. nabokov. huxley. brave new world. paul auster. orwell. 1984. bret easton ellis. graphic novels/comics. barjavel. enki bilal. persepolis. benacquista. sartre. gainsbourg. asimov. pennac. the little prince (love that one). the ethical slut. Art Spiegelman.

begnini. La Vita e Bella. kubrick. Dr Strangelove. Barry Lindon. clockwork orange. Eyes wide shut. Frank Capra. hitchcock. monthy pithon. brazil. david lynch. twin peaks. mulholand drive. blue velvet. blue, white, red. orson wells. citizen kane. being john malkovitch. Cohen brothers. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. gondry. basic instinct. Tarantino. reservoir dogs. pulp fiction. hal hartley. the unbelievable truth. trust. run lola run. the green mile. Amelie. woody allen (the movies not the person). almodovar. assayas. gainsbourg. lelouch. La vie d'Adele (blue is the warmest color)

Weeds. Californication. The Daily Show. The Colbert Report.

dali. kandinsky. van gogh. bacon. hopper. renoir. courbet. picasso

lana del rey. pixies. muse. kraftwerk. stromae. nina simone. leonard cohen. the pogues. velvet underground. the clash. bob dylan. kid loco. massive attack. pavement. fugazi. tricky. morcheeba. madder rose. bob sinclar. black eyes peas. pj harvey. cowboy junkies. tom waits. arcade fire. wolf parade. gotan project. katherine. josh wink. frank and walters. stromae. kristin hersh. archers of loaf. oasis. blur. pulp. stereolab. the cure. mazzy star. st germain. air. depeche mode. portishead. tiken jah fakoly. ismael lo. magic system. M. marylou lord. emilie simon. radiohead. blonde redhead. lisa germano. sonic youth. the smiths. my bloody valentine. U2. electronica. david guetta. Radiohead. Travis. Bjork. Air. Madonna. Basement Jaxx. Peter Bjorn & John. postal service. serge and charlotte gainsbourg. MGMT. chopin. dvorak. mozart. beethoven. nick cave. the kinks....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
escapades. witty banter. deep connexions. intimacy. affection. touch. kissing. great wine. great cheese. life desire. tennis. farmers markets. reading. massages. crabs. oysters. pates de fruit. africa. cheese fondue. raclette. black label. pinot noir. gevrey chambertin. my nieces...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the fine line between confidence and arrogance.
the bonobos.
the correlation between eyes expressiveness and brain sharpness/wittyness
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
ps: by the way "typical" is definitely a turn off concept for me
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I string my tennis rackets.
You should message me if
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you are willing to take a chance on some magic.
you love life. we have only one...
you wear leather/vinyl pants or skirt