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39 M New York, NY

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Last Online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Russian (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
born and raised in Paris. been living 5 years in Senegal. moved to DC end 2006 and to New York end 2012. blunt. honest. straightforward. super curious. sapiosexual. sex-positive. love to learn and share. nerdy. sweetly kinky. value real connections over superficial stuff. value relational and rational intelligence. value honesty. love intensity. have a weakness for smart ass, playful partner in crime...
What I’m doing with my life
work hard. try to save the planet kind of work. play hard. love life...
I’m really good at
not having any sense of direction
The first things people usually notice about me
my accent and right the second after my origin
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
oysters. sea creatures. black label whisky. great red wines. brussel sprouts (the way my grand mother was cooking them). croque monsieur et madame. yakitori (japanese skewers). edaname. and ile flottante. bacooooooonnnnnnn

belle du seigneur ('her lover' in english version) from albert cohen. houellebecq. georges bataille. buckowski. kafka. nabokov. huxley. brave new world. paul auster. orwell. 1984. bret easton ellis. graphic novels/comics. barjavel. enki bilal (french comics). persepolis. sartre. gainsbourg. asimov. the little prince (love that one). the ethical slut. Art Spiegelman.

begnini. La Vita e Bella. kubrick. Dr Strangelove. Barry Lindon. clockwork orange. Eyes wide shut. Frank Capra. hitchcock. monthy pithon. brazil. david lynch. twin peaks. mulholand drive. blue velvet. blue, white, red. orson wells. citizen kane. being john malkovitch. Cohen brothers. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. gondry. basic instinct. Tarantino. reservoir dogs. pulp fiction. hal hartley. the unbelievable truth. trust. run lola run. the green mile. Amelie. woody allen. almodovar. assayas. gainsbourg. lelouch.

Weeds. Californication. The Daily Show. The Colbert Report.

dali. kandinsky. van gogh. bacon. hopper. renoir. courbet. picasso

pixies. kraftwerk. radiolab. nina simone. leonard cohen. the pogues. velvet underground. the clash. bob dylan. kid loco. massive attack. gainsbourg. pavement. fugazi. tricky. morcheeba. madder rose. bob sinclar. black eyes peas. pj harvey. cowboy junkies. tom waits. arcade fire. wolf parade. gotan project. katherine. josh wink. frank and walters. stromae. kristin hersh. archers of loaf. oasis. blur. pulp. stereolab. the cure. mazzy star. st germain. air. depeche mode. portishead. tiken jah fakoly. ismael lo. magic system. marylou lord. emilie simon. radiohead. blonde redhead. lisa germano. sonic youth. the smiths. my bloody valentine. U2. electronica. david guetta. Radiohead. Travis. Bjork. Air. Madonna. Basement Jaxx. Peter Bjorn & John. postal service. serge and charlotte gainsbourg. MGMT. chopin. dvorak. mozart. beethoven. nick cave. the kinks
The six things I could never do without
relationships. witty banter. deep connexions. affection. touch. kissing (with a preference for the french way and I know some non-french are able to do french-way). great wine. great cheese. life desire. latex (aka condoms). tennis. farmers markets. reading. massages. crabs. oysters. pates de fruit. africa. cheese fondue. raclette. black label. pinot noir. gevrey chambertin. my nieces...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the bonobos.
the correlation between eyes attractiveness and brain smartness/wittyness
On a typical Friday night I am
happy (and "typical" is definitely a turn off concept for me)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I play settlers of catan, and string my tennis rackets.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–52
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are lively smart witty with expressive eyes, you are open minded, you enjoy silly banter as much as serious philosophical/political discussions, you want to do things with me we have not tried before or you wear leather outfits...

ps: it is frequent I appear online here while actually not in front of a screen