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frenchsweetie

36 F Chappaqua, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:18pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
--- I live in Northern Westchester but work in the city (practice manager). ---

We’ll probably have interests and drives somewhat different but I’m excited about broadening my horizons and experiencing the things that get your adrenaline going. In fact, I look forward to living your passions and new adventures together. To me, pursuing our passions individually and partaking in them together as a couple from time to time sounds like the recipe for happy people and a happy couple. I also hope that we’ll share important core values.

Spending quality time when we’re together is what matters to me: doing some of the things we both like (hopefully visiting places, participating in cultural things...), sometimes compromising, helping each other out with some chore, winding down together in our own way, relaxing in bed with a good book, or even catching up on work next to each other.

I can find pleasure in simple things, such as enjoying nature, hiking, or a joyride without a destination. I thrive on all things sensual, good music, food, the arts…. experiences that instill a sense of wonder and transport. Traveling, particularly to exotic destinations or places with a rich cultural heritage is a passion; I also fill the need for excitement and beauty on an everyday basis by catching a glimpse of a stormy sunset; by enjoying a moving performance or a spontaneous and deep conversation; or even daydreaming...

My best relationships are with people who are level-headed, easy-going, self-assured and have a great sense of humor – maybe because I’m free-spirited, passionate and spontaneous.

I'm hoping to find a thoughtful, engaging man for a lasting relationship filled with laughter and love Maybe that’s you! :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My contractor looks at my door and says: "Well, the problem with this door is that it's not level..." I burst out laughing and respond: "Of course, not! Nothing is in this house! I'm the only thing level in here!"
I know it was an easy one, but at least it cracked me up. (And no, I have no interest in my contractor, for those who wondered!)
Staying level and self-improving - that is what I aim to do :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Expressing myself; trying to be a better person every day; thinking about other's needs; being cute (the accent helps it seems)! ;-)

Decorating/designing/gardening. On that note: apparently, I'm not the only who thinks my place's got curb appeal - I was recently asked if I would allow to have the exterior of my house/garden shot for a movie! Which would include scenes of the father getting remarried in his/my backyard! I must be doing something right! Stay tuned for more info on that, if it works out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I’d say I typically come across as outgoing, upbeat and stylish. I have a witty sense of humor, with a French accent; and I’m very affectionate and giving, thoughtful, and compassionate when I care about someone - good things come to those who wait!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The lover (Duras), Tristan and Iseult, Zola's writings.

Movies: The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Moonstruck, Quills, The Lover, and Nurse Betty; David Lynch.

French, Italian and Spanish cuisine. Wait! also Thai, Korean, Vietnamese, and Indian - good ethnic dishes sum it up.

World music mostly, swing, jazz...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
affection; laughter; my cats; my friends; my home; a partner.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
design; self-improvement; how i can contribute to my friends' happiness
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
relaxing at home; with my best friend in the city; out to dinner meeting you!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Don't always take me seriously... I sometimes like to get a rise out of people... all in good fun though :-) so please bring your appetite for life and your sense of humor to the party (or to our date, as the case may be).
You should message me if
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you're intrigued and you're a fun, witty, attractive man who is easy-going with an edge.