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30 Napa, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:57pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a creative type with a balanced and realistic approach to life. I spend a large majority of my time listening to, creating, playing, and helping other musicians with music. I place an immense amount of value on my friendships, family, and relationships. I love silly humor, with a solid pinch of wit. I believe one of the ultimate things to have in life is having a partner.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Professionally: I am a full time music teacher at a couple of institutions, and a freelance musician and recordist on the side. I am currently pioneering a new music program for a High School, and am giving private lessons in violin, viola, guitar and bass. I play in a couple of musical acts in the Bay Area, I get hired to write and record parts for other people's songs, and I get hired to fill in on various instruments for other artists.

Recreationally: I am trying to get back into cycling and hiking. New and interesting melodies start to whirl in my head as soon as I start doing one of those activities. They are fantastic for brainstorming. Much of my professional life is so fun, I could consider it recreational, I just happen to make money at the same time. It is fantastic.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have been told I am extremely skilled in patience. I prefer to be 100% honest and bypass any reading between the lines. I also really enjoy being helpful, especially to those I care about most.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It used to be the hat (I have a collection of fedoras), but I am trying to phase that out of the everyday. Perhaps with the absence of the hat, they just notice that I'm pretty skinny. The truth is, I really don't know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shows: I don't watch TV, but if I decided to include that in the weekly routine, I'd probably be watching Transparent, or Orange is the New Black. There is something kind of depressing about watching TV alone all the time.
Books: I am reading David Byrne's "How Music Works" right now, and also just started reading Richard Powers's "Orfeo".
Music: way too much to start listing. I can share lots of music with you, no problem.
Food: Season depending - as it is cold these days - I am making casseroles and soups.
I always make a supremely fantastic cup of coffee, that will never change. I also make fantastic cocktails, and find much more value in making something myself, instead of spending $4 on a latte, or $12 on a cocktail. I much prefer to make things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my hands, ears, instruments, friends, family, good food, don't know what I'd do without my car either...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What should my lesson plans be this week?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be.... playing a show, playing a guitar, hanging out with friends in the Bay Area, relaxing with a drink, recording a new song, or watching a movie, allowing the brain to idle for a bit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I do wish I had a full head of hair. So much one can do with one of those.
You should message me if
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Message me if... you want to meet up and start up a conversation. I like wine, beer, cheese, coffee, music, and am quite agreeable.